How Do You Know If the Two of You Are More Than Friends?

Karl Withakay
You have a good friend of the opposite sex. You talk about everything with them. Who you're dating, how it's going. Over time, this relationship becomes more affectionate, until the two of you are a full blown couple. You didn't even see it coming either. It just happened. Well I'm here to tell you how it happened and to wake you up ahead of time if it's happening and you don't realize it.

Your Friends Notice Something

Whenever you and your special friend are out with your group, you find your friends making little comments. "You two would make such a great couple". "The two of you bicker like you're married" "You two are so into each other". "I can't think of a better guy or girl for you than him or her" Often your friends will pick up on a budding romance before you and your friend do.

You Develop Pet Names For Each Other

You don't plan it. It just happens. Usually, the guy starts this and the woman follows. He goes from saying, "Hey you" to , "Hey darling" or "Hey baby". The lady doesn't say anything. She doesn't want to make the relationship awkward. She just gets a bit more smitten every time it happens until she starts replying with things like, "Hey babe", Hey hon" instead of "Hey dude", or "Hey bro".

The Two Of You Find Yourself In Need Of Daily Contact

You two see each other every day and hang. Or you find that you are calling him or he is calling you every night before bed time, or every day asking them, "How was your day?" "What are you doing?" And on the days when you don't talk or see each other, you're just not yourself.

Your Gestures Develop Into Something A Bit Sweeter And More Endearing

The two of you always had a pat on the back style to you. But now instead of that, it's turning into sitting on his lap, holding her hand, and the hugs get a bit longer and more special. Then it happens, the first kiss.

If any or all of these signs are there, something romantic is very likely to happen. Now if you're already in a relationship with someone and this happens, it's best to re-assess your relationship with your romantic partner or change your behavior with your friend. Good luck.

Published by Karl Withakay

Karl is a full time 43 y/o Singer/guitarist/songwriter. He is also a self proclaimed computer geek. He builds, fixes and modifies computers. He is a US Navy, Gulf War Vet. and has worked as a CNA, a Parame...  View profile

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