How to Leave You Ex on the Past Forever!

Do You Just Keep Falling Back into Your Ex Claws and Just Can't Help It?

Jael Uribe
So you just can't resist the temptation of those lips, those big eyes that sexy smile, the soft hair, the irresistible body type and remembering the passionate moments you've both spent together? You wonder why your love one is not there to share those precious moments with you. You take a look at your bed and you just wish your sweetie was there, you want to call just to say hello or at least to say how much you care, but them you wake up from memories and remember you can't, since you already broke up! YOU JUST CAN'T since is your ex!

What can you do not to lead yourself into temptations now that the one you loved is out of your life?

First, concentrate on why the one you love is an ex. Dwell on the reasons a little bit and recall the reasons why you two can't be together. Don't let yourself be driven by good looks, don't let appearances fool you. Always take a look at the inside, the person inside, how much breaking up affected you. Think if it was the outside what attracted you the most about your ex, that there are a lot of good looking people out there too.

Was it was a matter of sex?

Don't close yourself to the opportunity of experiencing a sexual relationship with someone else, if your ex wanted you, someone else will too. Maybe the moments you are wasting waiting for your ex to get back to your life, is the same time you can spend giving yourself the chance of meeting someone you might like the most.

We can not have a total control of our feelings but we can control our attitudes. If you know you both have already made your choices, you need to make and effort to forget or at least try not to let your feelings about your ex forbid you from getting a hold on to someone else and to move on with your life. It isn't easy I know, but if you stick to the thinking about your feelings all time and remembering things you've done together then you'll never forget about it.

Try to go out and have fun.

Concentrate on giving yourself time to be alone and regain your self teem back. Buy some new clothes, get a new hair cut, work out, make a diet, change the color of your hair and got out with friends to places you've never dared to or never been before, and if along the way you get to meet someone nice, don't give a false telephone number, give that person an opportunity, give yourself a chance!

Perhaps, eventually you'll feel for that person the same way you feel now for your ex. Having a good looking appearance or a sexy manner is not all there is. You need the company of someone compatible, someone to share precious moments with. Repeat to yourself every time you feel lonely you deserve something much better than receiving your ex charity. Your ex has a new life away from you now and you need to make a choice for your happiness too.

Don't waste your life and time with the past, move on and LIVE! Life is short my friend. Today we are young and pretty, and don't care much about the future, tomorrow is already too late to regain time we've wasted. Make the best choice; choose yourself and your happiness!

Published by Jael Uribe

Born in Santo Domingo at Dominican Republic, a graphic designer, publisher and writer since 1998 in a variety of subjects such as poetry, esoterism.  View profile

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  • Donald Pennington8/28/2010

    Divorce is rough, isn't it?

  • jcorn7/9/2008

    Excellent advice and that photo is absolutely adorable!

  • AllisonBeat7/5/2008

    I love this. It sounds like personal experience to me. I would like to invite you to read some of the things I have published. I stumbled upon this today while reading and it certainly applies to me. I just went through a tough breakup and this was just the right medicine, as I was missing him today. Thank you for sharing your feelings. :)

  • Jody Morse7/1/2008

    Very good advice here!

  • 3lilangels6/30/2008

    great advice here very well presented and what a really cute picture!!!!

  • Carol Bengle Gilbert6/29/2008

    Well thought advice.

  • PenPress6/29/2008

    sound advice for those who need it..................

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