How to Listen to Sexy Women (Really Listen)

You lose so much when you get distracted talking to a beautiful woman. Do you think women don't know what men want? The entire sexy thing women do during meet-and-greets, on first dates, and during business and casual conversations are a mix of "let me see how far off I can throw this guy" and "lol...let me see how far I can throw this guy off."

If you can't concentrate and listen to beautiful women, you get nowhere, bottom line. So here's how to listen to beautiful women instead of stare.

To listen to beautiful women instead of just staring at them, first imagine them doing something gross, like going to the bathroom.

Yes, the vision of loveliness in front of you poops just like you.

See how unsexy that makes her just reading it?

The second thing you can do to listen to beautiful women without staring at them is to find an imperfection. Beautiful women are masters at hiding them, but everyone has them. It will humanize her long enough to get your brain back in working order.

So if she has a mole, it's not a "beauty mark," it's a skin lesion, from the family levi, that could very well contract melanoma and kill her.

In order to minimize the beauty of women you talk to, you can stare at their mouth as well as any imperfections. Staring at the mouth gives the impression of staring at the eyes to the receiver, but not the same impact to the viewer.

As you stare at this beautiful woman's mouth, focus on the scientific effort it takes to form words. Imagine that piece of unswallowed broccoli sloshing around all that saliva in her mouth, and all that bacteria that's attempting to dissolve it. Some of it might even get on you. Yuck city. She doesn't seem so sexy anymore, does she?

Now go finish your conversation before you drool all over everything.