How to Live Happily with Your College Roommate

Out of all the experiences and adventures associated with college, none worries a first-year student more than living with a roommate. What's it like to live in a tiny room with complete stranger? Will I get along with my roommate? How do I know he/she won't use my stuff when I'm out? These are all questions freshmen ask themselves, but you truly can't answer any of them until you start your college career. However, you can talk to your roommate before school starts to set some ground rules for how you guys will operate.

It's important to respect yourself in a roommate scenario because you don't want to be a push-over. It's OK to do a few favors for your roommate to establish a friendly relationship, but be wary if these favors become ever more constant. He/she is likely taking advantage of your kindness.

Before classes start, talk with your roommate about what items you will share and what is off-limits. Whether it's a TV, a mini-fridge, or a microwave, there are plenty of things you both can use. When it comes to borrowing personal belongings, it's always best to ask permission. As an avid guitar player, I was not happy when I walked in my room and found my roommate sitting on my bed, playing my instrument. I could have let it pass as no big deal, but I explained to him, "Hey, from now, ask me if you can play it before you pick it up." It was definitely an uncomfortable and tense moment, but guess what? It worked and made our relationship better.

If both you and your roommate tackle schoolwork inside the room, make sure to be courteous and respect each other's study time. Nothing is more frustrating than trying to write a paper while your roommate is causing a commotion three fight behind you.

If you plan on hosting someone overnight, make sure to ask your roommate beforehand if he approves. It's doubtful he'll say no, and it shows that you're considerate enough to ask him for permission. Also, make sure your visitor is well-behaved and respects your roommate's routine. That way, it won't create trouble if you wish to host another guest in the future.

It may sound like common sense, but if you're roommate is gearing up to sleep, don't entertain friends in your room and blast your TV or iTunes. If you need to work on your computer, make sure the glare isn't too bright and wear headphones if you plan on having the sound on.

A roommate relationship is ultimately about respect. Sure, some roommates become the best of friends and live together for the next three years of school. But for the most part, tensions and pet peeves can get in the way of developing a truly meaningful friendship. The best way to live well with a roommate is to be respectful and courteous. Adhere to the ground rules you guys set and you'll be on your way to a fun, drama-free year inside your room.