How to Lose a Bad Relationship in 10 Days

Do you find yourself caught up in a rage with your partner day by day? Do you always end up with tears streaming down your face? Do you spend your night alone with only a box of tissues to hold on to? These are just a few signs of a bad relationship. However, just because this is bad, it doesn't warrant an easy way out as deep emotions may still be attached. However, if you have the conviction that you are already fed up with the hurt, anger and the pain that you could never even manage to put a smile on your face; then here's how it's possible for you to let go of a bad relationship in ten days.

First of all, you have to acknowledge the interplay between your mind and heart. This time around, do not let your emotions make the decision for you. Keep in mind that this relationship is better off without you. As they say, "There are many fishes in the sea" - where you can find someone who can make you laugh until you drop, lift your spirits up and give meaning to your life.

Second, get a pen and paper and jot down all the negative attributes about your relationship. While doing so, answer questions such as "Did he physically inflict pain on me?" "Did he always tell me lies" "Was he by my side when I needed a shoulder to lean on?" "Did he say snide comments about me?" Did he make sacrifices for me?" "Was he by my side when I got ill?" If you answered "no" to all of these questions, then this is a proof that you are not meant for each other!

If the list goes on and on that you have no space on your paper to scribble in to, then this is a very good reason to close the door to your heart and shut it tightly. Vent out all your negative feelings simply by writing down everything that you can think of. Read each line and walk through the rage, the pain, and sadness once again. Keep this paper and read it not once, not twice but thrice if he or she tries to seize your heart again. There is just no room for second chances especially if physical abuse and maltreatment is a part of it.

Once you'd go through all those stages, I'm pretty sure that you can walk out from a bad relationship in a short span of time. You can then move on and become proud that you did yourself a big favor. Eventually, you can smile, laugh, and kiss a lifetime of misery goodbye.