How to Meet Hot Single Girls If You Are Shy

-- Use it as a Strength! Here's How

Chrisdavy
Chrisdavy, Yahoo! Contributor Network
Dec 21, 2009 "Share your voice on Yahoo! websites. Start Here."
Are you the guy that freezes up anytime hot single girls walk into the room? Every day you get up and say it's going to be different, but every time your shyness gets you? So you're stuck dating girls you really aren't attracted to, which is bad for both of you. There are ways to meet hot single girls if you are shy, and here is the how to.
  1. Use the internet to meet hot single girls without fear of rejection.

    Put up a profile on at least 3 dating sites, with different pictures and intro paragraphs. Monitor for a month which one attracts the girls you like most, then change all the profiles to match that one.

  2. Begin your journey meeting hot single girls by talking online like friends first.

    Once you've found the pictures and words that attract the girls you like, it's time to start talking back. When an interested girl emails, email back a friendly response.

    Don't worry about "saying the right thing" or "getting her attracted to you." You're only in phase 2.

  3. Work your way through your fear by asking out many girls at once.

    Once you begin talking to hot single girls like friends, you will begin to notice that they are just people, too, with weaknesses and fears like you. This should give you confidence.

    When you get 5 girls in a good conversation, send out a mass email to all of them asking for a date. Don't give a place or time, just ask if they're available.

  4. Your first girl will be your "in" to many other girls.

    Some of the girls you email in step 3 will be busy or won't like you like that, but at least one will. Meet her in a friendly atmosphere and get to know her. Your goal is not to get her into a relationship or be her girlfriend, but just to get comfortable talking in person to hot single girls.

    You WANT to make her your friend. Because hot single girls have hot single friends. This is where step 5 is going.

  5. Now instead of one hot single girl, you have MANY hot single girls at your disposal!!

    Now that you have your "in" girl, you will be introduced around to your hot single girl's hot single friends instead of having to make introductions yourself. Use this to your advantage and create friendships with all her friends. Eventually, not because of any manufactured emotion or game playing, girls will start to like like you. Everything will happen naturally from there. GL!

Published by Chrisdavy

AC's licentious, guilty pleasure. What can I say? I write about sex and money. You know, the important stuff. Giggle. (But I do it so well!) Fashion, too. LOL  View profile

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