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How I Might Have Saved a Child From Being Abducted

Sondra C
I hear on the nightly news, almost every evening, that a young child has gone missing. The mothers cry and plead with the unknown abductor to bring their child back home safe.

Children go missing, it seems, on a daily basis. Then they are discovered dead a few days or later. Teams of rescue searchers comb the area where the child was last seen. This scene is almost a nightly event on the evening news. The parents should be blamed for not watching their children.

Let me tell a story of what had just happened in the Supermarket.Thank goodness I might have saved a child from being abducted. It is hard to believe that a young mother was annoyed at me because I warned her to watch her young child who was walking further and further away from her. Does anyone really believe that a crowded Supermarket is a safe place to be for a child?

I was pushing my shopping cart near the milk section Publix Supermarket. It crowded. People were just getting home from work and picking up something to eat for dinner.

I was about to turn to the right, when I noticed a young mother standing in front of me and looking at the shelf. In her arm was a young child of about eight months. Clinging to her dress was a little girl who looked to be about four years of age.Ã'š In front of me, looking at the candy shelf, was her little boy of about three. He was walking slowly down the aisle alone, and soon the customers were in front of him. He was almost impossible to see at this point.

I feared the worse. I walked over to this young mother, who was looking the other say, to watch her child! She gave me a 'mind your own business' look and looked in the direction of her son.

She took her little finger and motioned for him to come back. He smiled and shook his head no and walked even further away in the opposite direction from where she was standing and almost out of sight.

Once again, I told her nicely to watch the child and that anyone can pick him up and walk out of the store with him. She gave me this "mind your own business" look and motioned to him, to come over to her. She never thought of walking towards him. He shook his head NO! as little children often do when they think they are being cute.

I had to walk away. I was frightened for the child. I was angry at the stupid young mother, who had the children clinging all over her and food in her hands. You would have thought that she would have least placed them in a shopping cart!

I finished shopping and was waiting in the check-out line!. I saw the mother standing and ready to pay. She had her baby in her arm, money in her hands and the little girl on her side. Once again her little boy was no where to be seen. She looked at me, and sent her little girl to find him and stay with him. That was not very clever. Would you agree?

Now some pervert could have easily abducted the two children instead of only the one.

Published by Sondra C

Brooklyn born Sondra Crane is a youthful looking and acting senior. She began writing as a child and never stopped. Her blog, "Along Life's Path" includes life as it was then and a glimpse into her thoughts...  View profile

Why do parents think that their children are safe in a Supermarket? Would they allow them stray in the street? How many children have to be abducted parents wake up to the lurking dangers everywhere?

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  • Hanna Smith1/17/2011

    Teach your child how to avoid child abduction by explaining the importance of staying in a large group, teaching them about "stranger danger," and helping them learn how to summon help if a child abduction situation does arise. Providing them a cell phone is a good idea, so they can reach us all the time. I will recommend this cell phone application I got for my children’s safety and protection. It has a panic button which can summon immediate help in times of emergency. I believe they will be safe from abduction in this application, check this out http://safekidzone.com/

  • Memmay Moore11/12/2010

    I see this too often in Florida where horrible things happen to children. The other day while driving I saw a little boy walking alone by a retention pond, Far ahead was his mother talking on the phone pushing a baby carriage. We asked her if the boy was hers..She smiled and said yes. He could have been stolen, drowned or eaten by alligators.

  • Abby Willow11/6/2010

    I saw a child running through Walmart crying for momma- I took her to the front of the store where they paged the mom- who had actually made it to the parking lot before realizing her daughter was missing- scary

  • Martha Fry11/4/2010

    Luckily, my children are older now, but I put my kids through a course on abduction years ago. They knew well to scream "He's not my dad!" if someone tried to take them against their will. It's a dangerous world out there.

  • Sarah D.10/24/2010

    hmmm...why are you targeting YOUNG parents? any parent can loose their child just as easy...YOUNG or old.

  • Vincent Summers10/21/2010

    I am divided over this. Yes, it is wise for a parent to watch the children in a public place. The child was in view and the mother had two others and was occupied. Separations do sometimes happen -- it only takes a moment. I believe I would have let the matter pass in this instance. Sometimes as we get older, we can expect people to look at things as we do. Yes, I'd have let it pass in this instance...

  • Anne Bowen10/19/2010

    I marvel at young parents who try to shop with more than one young child in tow. It's too bad they can't find SOMEone to w atch the kids for just the few minutes it takes to go to the store both for the parents' sanity and the kids' safety.

  • Sandy James10/18/2010

    I think the Mom's that use leashes are the smart ones. Taking three kids anywhere is tough to handle.

  • leroy coffie10/18/2010

    that is why I watch my children like a hawk

  • Michael Segers10/18/2010

    Great report on this dread story.

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