How to Get in the Mood

Every now and then a relationship may fall into a bit of a rut. Whether it be stress from work or just life in general, women tend to get stuck inside their heads. These stresses may carry into the bedroom. Sometimes it is hard to get in the mood when all you are thinking about is what you have to do now, later, and tomorrow. In order for a woman to be turned on, they truly must feel sexy themselves. I've listed some easy ways to clear your mind and feel sexy in order to make love to your man and strengthen your relationship.

Shit, Shower, and Shave
Actually, more stress on the showering and shaving. Taking a nice long shower or bath can clear your mind and clean your body. We all know we tend to slack off in the shaving department during the winter months. There is almost no point because the minute you get out of the shower and the cold air hits your legs, the hair starts to grow instantly. Well spring has sprung so start shaving. When you feel clean and smooth, you are more prepared for those days when it starts to feel warm. Throw on some flip flops and a long skirt and you can feel sexy and comfortable.

Exercise
Yeah, I know, I abhor exercising. I never do it and I should. Sometimes a few simple stretches every morning and a couple crunches can change everything. Even though its not making a big dent towards my flat stomach, I still feel lean, long, and a little bit skinnier if I break a sweat. Stretching is a very important first step before working out. If you hate working out like I do, consider your workout sex and stretch first, it will enhance your flexibility and stamina.

Think About Him
Instead of getting caught up in all the little problems that will not matter next week, think about your man. Think about how much you love him, all that he does for you, and what you're going to do to him later. If we anticipate sex all day, we won't be able to keep off him when we get home later. Focus your daydreaming on what your going to wear later, how you will do your makeup, or how you will surprise him and remind him why he's so lucky to have you.

Tan
Now I'm not saying you should camp out at your nearest fake 'n bake, but tanning does make you look skinnier. When you are tan, your body looks more toned and thin. It is a known fact that darker colors make you look skinnier and lighter colors make you look bigger. If you don't like tanning beds and can't wait till summer, pick up some fake tanning lotion or even a tinted moisturizer. The tinted moisturizer is a great tool for evening out your skin tone.

Avoid Bloating
Bloating of the stomach is inevitable and common after eating. If you want to look and feel sexy when your man gets home from work, there are things to avoid in advance. Try to eat more smaller meals rather than a few large ones. Avoid swallowing air by eating slowly and chewing your food thoroughly. Sodium, sugar, and alcohol are all common causes of bloating so lower your intake before bedtime. Eat early and set aside time for yourself to digest before you make your move.

Watch a Movie
This is a great way to clear your mind and digest your dinner. When I watch a movie I am forced to stop thinking about how much I hate my stupid job and everyone I work with. Watching a movie lets me forget about my life and concentrate on someone else's. This is also a great time to let your stomach settle down after being bloated from eating that great dinner you just cooked. I know its clich�, but try watching a movie about love and relationships, it will remind you how much you love yours.

Vibrator/ Porn
This subject may be a bit risqu� but most of us do it. Vibrators are amazing and every woman should own one. They can instantly get you in the mood and you can turn on your man by letting him watch. I'm not big into porn but watching sex makes you want to have sex. It's true and it also always works. Have some fun with your significant other and take a trip to the porn shop together. You never know what you may find.

Lingerie
Every woman should own nice lingerie. I don't care for designer clothes but I will always spend money on Victoria's Secret. Everyone looks good in their cute outfits. This is actually a pretty quick way to look sexy. Put on a baby doll, pile on the eyeliner, flip your head over and shake out your hair. Try something made of lace with a bit of stretch, I guarantee you will feel like a supermodel the minute you put it on. Walk around in heels when you show off your new outfit. Heels make your legs and butt look great and improve your posture.

Pigtails
Yes, pigtails. I know for a fact every man likes pigtails. If you need a change or something new, pigtails always work. Every woman is a closet porn star and this is your way to channel your inner whore...or catholic school girl. If you have long hair they will look cute braided. Sometimes its fun to get out of yourself and get into character. When you feel like a sex goddess you will be surprised of all the energy you suddenly have and the things you can do.