How to Have a More Romantic Honeymoon

Lisa Riggs
It is tradition for a newly married to take a trip immediately after the wedding. This special get away, referred to as a honeymoon is a wonderful time for couples to revel in their joy and spend a week so just enjoying each other. Romance is usually the main ingredient for this vacation. However, there are some pitfalls that newlyweds can fall into that can severely reduce the amount of romance that takes place on the honeymoon. Here are some tips on how you can ensure that you truly get the most out of your post wedding trip.

Choose the Destination Wisely.

The setting of the honeymoon can inspire romance, or not. While Disneyland may be your favorite place, it may not be a destination that is very conducive to romance. Choose a travel spot and lodging that caters to couples and offers a gorgeous landscape. Moonlit strolls on beaches, rowboat rides on a lake and nature walks on mountain trails can all set the stage for a very special and intimate time together as husband and wife. Try to choose a hotel or resort that has special amenities for couples and sophisticated and elegant decor. Your surroundings and the activities you enjoy together will surely create a wonderful atmosphere for romance.

Leave Work at Home.

Many dedicated professionals have a difficult time taking time off from work, even for their honeymoon. However, spending even a little bit of time wrapped up in work every day can surely kill the mood. As busy as those last few weeks are before the wedding, make finishing up projects and tying up loose ends at work a priority. This getaway with your spouse should be all about the both of you and the love you share. There will be plenty of time for work once you both get back home.

Avoid Pairing Up Too Closely with Another Couple.

It is not uncommon to meet up with another couple while honeymooning and start spending time together. Sharing meals, playing sports and relaxing by the pool together can be fun, but too much of it can diminish the romance. If you do meet another couple that you hit it off with, make plans to eat dinner with them one night or have a drink together at the bar. However, don't seek them out every day and feel free to decline their invitations to get together. It is always nice to make new friends when traveling, but the main priority for your honeymoon is to spend time together as a couple.

Limit the Amount of Alcohol You Drink.

A few cocktails during dinner or Happy Hour can help you both relax, but too much of a good thing can severely put a damper on the romance. Not only can drinking too much cause you to act in ways that is a turn off to your partner, the hangover the next day will not exactly get you in the most loving and affectionate mood. Keeping the amount of alcohol you indulge in to a minimum will help you both to enjoy each other as much as you can during this special time.

Published by Lisa Riggs

Happily married mom of two wonderful girls.  View profile

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