How a Nice Guy Can Act like a Bad Boy with the Woman He Loves

Hannah
Most nice guys are under the assumption that women really want bad boys, and that's why they always finish last. I'm here to tell you that they really don't want a true bad boy, it's just that they're attracted to some of the ways a bad boy acts. Let's take a look at how you can be that bad boy for the woman you love, and still stay that nice guy!

Act Mysterious-

Unfortunately somewhere along the way the nice guy started to believe that being an open book is what women want, and in some sense that's true. However, that doesn't mean we always know what's good for us. Of course women don't want a man that lies and hides things, but what women do want is a little mystery. So, how about holding back just enough to keep a woman's curiosity up. Let her dig a little for some of that information. If you give it all up in the beginning, what's there to look forward to? Please don't get me wrong, I am in no way suggesting that you keep pertinent information from her that could seriously affect your relationship. Just keep those little things about yourself a little hidden, so each day she can be surprised at something new and wonderful about you. Why do you think mystery stories are so fascinating? It's because we don't know how it's all going to turn out. Keep a little mystery guys, she'll love it!

Dress Sexy Sometimes-

It's a well known fact that most men like their woman to look sexy, even if it's just for them in the bedroom. Well, guess what nice guys although you may look good in those hiking shorts and polo shirts, it really doesn't do much for most women in the arousal department. This is why women are attracted sometimes to way the bad boys dress. A nice pair of tight jeans with a T-shirt to show off your muscles, goes a long way in the sexiness department. So, once in a while throw off those hiking shorts, cover up those knobby knees, and put on a pair of tight jeans and a T-shirt, and she will definitely like what she sees. Yes, contrary to popular belief women are visual beings as well.

Be Spontaneous-

Most nice guys I have known might as well be carrying a daily planner with them 24/7. Just about everything they do is planned out to the minute, the hour and the day. Somewhere along the way they never learned the definition of spontaneous, which means on the spur of the moment. Although women do like stability they don't want it every minute of every day. So, how about surprising her right out of the blue, without any notice, of a weekend away to some exotic or remote place where the two of you can do some private skinny dipping. Bad boys are noted for just picking up at a moments notice and doing something wild and crazy. You don't have to carry it to an extreme though, to show your woman that you can be exciting too!

Be Adventurous About Love Making-

I'm not talking about anything harmful here. No need to get into kinky sex. Just be open to new places, and new ways to show your woman just how much you desire her. Please leave the toys out, that's not what most women want. They want the passion from you, not some electronic device. With bad boys batteries are not included. They know how to sweep a woman off her feet with pure charm, sophistication, and overwhelming passion. Sounds good to me! So, the next time you surprise your honey with a picnic, make it In a very private spot where you can show her just how passionate you really are!

There you have it guys, some really good suggestions for acting like a bad boy with the woman you love, and still remain the nice guy she loves and depends on!

Published by Hannah

I am a former child & family counselor, and now retired. I am proud to be a U.S Air Force Vietnam Era Veteran. I enjoy writing articles on Relationships, Dating, Marriage, Parenting and much more! I hope you...  View profile

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  • David A. Reinstein, LCSW9/13/2009

    Ah.... the secrets at last revealed :-}

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