How to Be an Objective Reader in Social Writing Circles

Lyn Lomasi
When participating in social writing networks and websites, you will come across a wide array of opinions. This is normal when combining groups of people. At times the viewpoints of others will not be the same as your own. In fact, there will be times when the opinions of certain topics can be personal and even offensive.However, it is possible to effectively express your thoughts without putting the down the writer, even when you completely disagree with what they have to say.

Respect Difference of Opinion
Everyone is entitled to their own opinion, regardless of who agrees or disagrees with that viewpoint. Think before you type and hit send on any commentary. A piece can still be well-written, even if you don't agree with its content. Good writing is not about the subject matter, but about how well that topic is presented. Even if you disagree with another's opinion, it still is possible to appreciate well-written content. Quality of writing and the opinion of the topic being written about are not the same thing.

Embrace the Creativity
As a writer, you have the unique knowledge to appreciate the creativity and skills that it takes to produce a well-written piece of content. Every piece of content takes thought, time, and energy. The way it is put together can be admired without agreeing with the opinions. Look at how the words flow. Is the content easy to read and understand? Did the writer get the point across well? Is the content formatted in an attractive way? There are many creative aspects, which can be appreciated in writing material.

Consider Feelings
Think about the impact that your words will have on an author before you let your thoughts be known. If you have a valid point to make, state your case. The writer may be interested in hearing your viewpoint. If you disagree, considering feelings doesn't mean you have to pretend you agree. However, before you put down your words, think about the way you'd like people to respond to your content. Would you rather receive commentary or feedback that disagreed with your topic, but stated the case well or commentary that was just a slew of insults?

Think about which kind of commentary and feedback will help the writer grow. After all that usually is the purpose of a social writing circle; for writers to come together and help each other grow.

Published by Lyn Lomasi - Featured Contributor in Lifestyle

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  • Tim Searles 9/9/2009

    I definitely agree with this. Writing is an art form as well as an informational outlet. That said, people are entitled to their expression and we should assess the writing and make objective commentary as necessary.

  • AC Darnell 7/23/2009

    Well said, Lyn!

  • Linda Cole 4/20/2009

    The only way to find common ground is to have a discussion about what may be a difference of opinion, but it does need to be respectful and polite. Listening and thinking about other views is the best way to move together to find solutions to the disagreements. You are quite right. There's nothing wrong with disagreeing with someone, but it is wrong to put someone down because they don't agree with you. A good reminder to keep in mind.

  • R. Elizabeth C. Kitchen (Rose) 4/20/2009

    Excellent article Momie. I completely agree with you. You can disagree in a polite manner and the quality of one's work should not be judged by their opinion or topic choice.

  • Sandra Essary 4/2/2009

    Amen and amen. Now I just hope the people who need to read this do so.

  • Radell 3/18/2009

    Thanks for saying what needed to be said, and doing it so diplomatically.

  • Greenhill 3/17/2009

    Right on. I try not to say anything negative even if the spelling is awful and the structure is a mess!

  • Amy Solovay 3/17/2009

    You are so right!

  • jcorn 3/14/2009

    You are right on target with this one. You always find a way to bridge the gaps between people.

  • Vincent Summers 3/14/2009

    Well written plus I enjoyed the content - both. A suggestion when counseling. Find a good point you can mention. Finish off with another good point you see. Put the medicine in between. A little bit of sugar helps the medicine go down. Say, I'm clever! I ought to write those words down!

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