How to Get Over an Inappropriate Crush

We've all been there--crushing on someone who is unavailable, uninterested, not age-appropriate, or otherwise incompatible.

Steve Carell's summer film, "Crazy, Stupid Love" features an achingly awkward love triangle between 13-year-old Robbie (Jonah Bobo), the 17-year-old babysitter (Annaleigh Tipton), and Cal (Carell's character). That situation was a train wreck waiting to happen!

What's the best way to get over an inappropriate crush? How do you get over someone who is unattainable or otherwise wrong for you?

1. Be Sure You're Not Unintentionally Sabotaging Yourself

On "Glee" season 1, Rachel (Lea Michele) developed an inappropriate crush on her married teacher, Mr. Schue (Matthew Morrison). Upon reflection, she realized that her feelings for Will were a symptom of low self-esteem. She fell for unavailable men as a way of reinforcing her belief that no guy would ever find her desirable.

2. Focus on Yourself and Being the Best Person You Can Be

Although it's easier said than done, focusing on yourself is the best way to take your mind off your crush. People who are happy and who love themselves end up being more attractive. Focus on the things that make you happy, whether it's pampering yourself, pursuing hobbies that you enjoy, or surrounding yourself with positive people who lift your spirits.

3. Take the Attention Away From Your Problems By Helping Others

One of the best ways to snap out of a dating funk is to help others. That can come in many forms: volunteering, philanthropy, or even just helping a friend in need. The high that you get from helping someone may be just what you need to forget about your love dilemmas.

4. Be Open to the Possibility of Meeting Others

You don't have to completely give up on your crush, but you can at least be open to the possibility that there may be someone else out there for you. The world seems like a bigger place when you're making friends, meeting people, and having new experiences. And you just might meet someone special when you least expect it!

5. If Necessary, Keep Your Distance From Your Crush

Sometimes the only way to really get over someone is to keep your distance for awhile. You don't have to completely cut the person out--just focus on other people and other experiences right now. Once you have truly moved on from your crush, then you may even be able to be friends (platonic, that is).