How to Perform a Wedding Party Group Dance

The father-daughter dance, the couple's first dance and many line dances are often done at wedding receptions. But with the popularity of ballroom and dance shows on television and in the media these days some wedding parties are incorporating choreographed group dances into their receptions. They can be great fun to perform and very entertaining to watch. Here are some simple ideas if you would like to include a wedding party dance at your celebration.

The wedding party dance can be a wonderful bonding experience for all the bridesmaids and groomsmen. Generally, they meet a few times before the reception to work out some choreographed steps. When the dance is performed at the reception guests are often surprised and delighted to watch. Some wedding parties have even worked on the dances in secret and done them as a tribute or surprise for the bride and groom.

You don't need to be an experienced dancer to take part in a wedding party dance. You just need to be willing to get out on the dance floor with the group and have fun. The dance can easily incorporate everyone in the wedding party, all ages and either couples or singles can dance together.

You'll want to start by finding a choreographer or local instructor that can help you create a dance. If there is a dancer in the wedding party, they may be willing to step up and create something. You'll need a place to practice, a time to meet (a few days are recommended) and some music. For music you can use a fun party song, a favorite song of the bride and groom or something that represents a message you want to get across. Some dancers have used "Stand by your Man", "We go together" (from Grease) and "Oh What a Night". Be creative and choose a song that is easy to move to.

Once you have the music picked out, decide what kind of movement you will do. Even if you don't know how to choreograph you can get ideas for dance steps by acting out the words in the song. Pick a few steps that everyone in the group can do. Another tip is to try to associate the steps with the words to the song so that it's easier to remember the steps. If you're at a loss for ideas take a look at some music videos or back-up singer choreography, especially rock and roll groups. If you think it's appropriate have some of the groomsmen do cheeky, Chippendale style dancing, which always brings a few laughs. Put the good dancers in front where the others can watch...and have fun.

Once you have practiced your dance you'll want to decide when during the reception you will perform. Make sure you talk to the band or disc jockey and let them know your plans. With a little practice ahead of time and a positive attitude you can have a lot of fun performing a wedding party dance at the reception.