How to Please Your Partner Better

Everyone wants to please their partner in bed. It can be very frustrating for your mate to complain that you didn't last long enough, or it wasn't enjoyable, or anything along that vein. Allow me to clarify: we're talking about sex here and sexual things. Things that are perfectly natural, and, yet, no one seems to feel comfortable talking about tem. The following are some ways that you can spice up your sex life and make things a little (or a lot) more interesting in bed for both you and your partner.

Play dress-up. That is to say: wear costumes. Role-play. Most people don't mind trying it at least once, and very few people find it displeasing; even if you don't think you'll like it, it might be a good idea to try it. The variety can be a turn-on for both you and your partner. Common costumes include nurse outfits, cowboy and cowgirl outfits, policeman and criminal, and more. In other words, emulate something that you think you might find in pornography. It can be as raunchy or playful as you like. I won't even try to suggest anything to that effect.

Talk dirty. Even if your partner doesn't say that they like it, it's possible that they're simply too embarrassed to admit that they like it, or they don't know that they like it. Dirty-talking in bed can add an extra element of sensuality and many people find it a turn-on. Afterwards, if you like, you can discuss what was said; it can add intimacy to your relationship, and it can even be mildly humorous.

Use toys. There's definitely a lot to be said for doing it yourself, but sometimes, toys can make things interesting. There are all manner of interesting little sexual gizmos and gadgets that one can buy from reputable places on the internet. It is likely that you have a "toy-store" in your area, whether or not it is often mentioned. You may like to drop in some time and see if they can find something to tickle your fancy.

Hit the books. Things like the Kama Sutra may provide ideas as to different positions that you might like to try. They've been around for a long time, but there's certainly a reason that the Kama Sutra is an often-mentioned go-to book for interesting sexual positions. They just don't do it like -that- anymore, do they?