How to Prepare for a New Baby Without Spending a Lot of Money

Summer Minor
New parents often hear from family, friends, and glossy magazine article how expensive having a baby can be. New furniture, clothing that is outgrown quickly, formula and baby food, and a dozen other "must haves" that can add up quickly. So what are parents who simply do not have a huge amount of money to spend to do? Here are some money saving tips for parents-to-be.

High cost item #1 - Infant formula
Buying cases of expensive infant formula can quickly add up for parents. Add into that the cost of bottles, the inconvenience of cleaning and preparing, and the sleep lost to late night feedings and the price of formula seems even larger. What can parents do to save money? Breastfeed. Breastmilk is free, always ready, and goes with you every where. Breastfed children also have stronger immune systems, which can mean healthier children and less doctor bills or time off of work to care for sick children.

High cost item #2 - Diapers
Second to formula diapers are the next highest priced item that parents will be constantly buying. Even with cheaper brands with ten to twelve diaper changes a day the prices can be enormous. What can parents do? Cloth diapers are making a strong comeback because they are not only as easy to use as disposable diapers, come in an assortment of cute styles and colors, but also because the one time cost is half of what most parents will spend on disposable diapers in their child's diapered life. Costs for disposable diapers average at about $2,000 to $3,000 per child, yet a good cloth diaper stash can be put together for around $500. And the best part? Cloth diapers have a great resale value, meaning you can get most of your money back after you child has outgrown them.

High cost item #3 - Nursery furniture
The crib, the changing table, and the cute matching bedding, are expensive items that can wipe out an entire paycheck for some parents. What is a cheaper alternative? Many parents choose not to buy any of the expensive furniture. Changing tables or changing stations can be dangerous, especially after the child has begun rolling over and is learning to get around. Experienced parents will tell you to skip the table and just use the floor, bed, or a low couch to quickly change a diaper. And for the crib and crib bedding? Cosleeping parents will tell you that brining baby into their bed not only meant no need for a crib, but it also means no need to buy pricey crib bedding, sheets, and matching nursery décor that many parents are tempted with. Cosleeping also helps with bonding for both parents, allows parents to sleep more peacefully, and reduces the numerous trips that all new parents take checking on their baby's every whimper. And for breastfeeding moms night feeding evolves into a quick task, simply lift the shirt and fall back to sleep.

High cost item #4 - Baby clothes.
Babies grow fast, very fast. What fits today may easily be too tight tomorrow, especially during the first few months when babies are doubling or tripling their birth weight. Despite the short wear time and the fondness for stains, baby cloths are expensive to buy. Low cost solution? Look for used baby clothes. I know it may sound odd at first, but often an entire wardrobe can be found in second hand stores and consignment shops in near perfect condition. Boxes of new baby clothes that were never worn because the child outgrew them, they were the wrong seasonal attire, or the parents simply never got around to putting them on are often donated or put up for resale. You can expect to pay half the new price, or less, and still walk away with clean, adorable, great condition baby clothes.

High cost item #5 - Stroller
The big, bulky, hard to manage baby stroller is not only a struggle for new parents to operate, it is also pricey. Trying to load and unload the stroller, maneuver narrow aisles in stores, and move across anything not paved can reduce any new parent to tears. So what is a more cost effective item? Other than using your arms, which are free, parents can look into the wide assortment of baby slings and carriers available today. Many can be found for $50 or less, and for the craftier parent a simple sling can be made for less than $10. Lightweight, easy to carry, and simple to use slings offer parents a hands free way to carry their baby and still be able to shop, clean, eat, or anything else. Added bonus is that babies carried often cry less and feel more secure because the closeness of contact, the nearby heartbeat, and the sway of the parents' body reminds the child of the womb.

Though at first the though of having a baby may seem expensive, especially so with dozens of products marketed to new parents as "must have" items, the fact is a child really does not need all of the modern conveniences offered. A warm place to sleep, a full belly, a clean diaper, and a loving caregiver are all a baby really needs. By choosing low cost or free alternatives parents do not need to worry about the expense of having a baby.

Published by Summer Minor

Summer Minor is a mother of 3 who practices Attachment Parenting and believes that with gentle guidance children can grow to be who they were meant to be. She blogs about parenting at http://mama2mamatips.com   View profile

  • Breastfeeding is free and provides immune boosters not found in formula.
  • Cosleeping eliminates the need for a crib and crib bedding.
  • Good quality baby clothes can be found in second hand stores for half the price of new.
The U.S. Department of Agriculture estimates it costs the average middle class family, $18,4000 to raise a baby from birth to age 17.

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  • Heather B. 2/26/2007

    Heredity, environment, and lifestyle affect your immune system and tendancy to contract illnesses. When a formula-fed baby is healthy it's not because of the diet, but other factors. When a breastfed baby is healthy, the diet of breastmilk is one of the many factors. Formula-fed babies can be healthy, but it's a risk I would't take. This time we are not buying a stroller. We may end up getting a new one eventually but for now we are just planning on buying a sling or wrap of some sort for the new baby. And we won't be spending a penny on formula. :)

  • Angela England 2/26/2007

    We've managed to have two children on a rather small single income and we aren't "suffering" at all. OK, it's not a SUPER small income but it certainly couldn't afford the "$10,000 a year" each child is SUPPOSED to average us. *laughng* Great article!

  • Sharon Van Gaskin 2/26/2007

    Kristina, the research does support the idea that "breastfed babies are healthier." Statistically, there is a lot of evidence to support that breastfed babies have fewer ear infections, gastrointestintal illness, etc. I was plagued with ear infections as a child, my daughter has never had a single ear infection, and one would presume if my tendency towards ear infections was genetic or "structural" then she would have had one in the last four years. Anyway, it's a hard point to convince people of because some people for whatever reason simply don't feel that the antibodies a breastfed baby receives via breastmilk actually impacts illness. Anecdotally from my own experience of being formula fed and from breastfeeding my daughter, I think breastfeeding wins hands down.

  • flutterby 2/26/2007

    hehehehehehe I giggle cuz I read your blog....

  • Question Everything 2/26/2007

    Great tips! There are so many things that I would never have thought to get someone.

  • Summer Minor 2/26/2007

    Kristina there are a lot of healthy children who were fed formula, and some sicj children who were breastfed. The issue is you really cannot compare them like you are doing. It is not a matter of all breastfed children are healthy and all formula fed children are sick. It is that children who are forumla fed do not have the immunity boosting agents that they would have if they were breastfed. A child who is formula fed and only gets sick once would have not gotten that 1 illness if they were breastfed. A breastfed child who was sick often might have been deathly ill had they been formula fed. There is always someone who has an opposite experience, but that does not disprove research.

  • Kristina Jones 2/26/2007

    Great article. The only thing I hate hearing is "breast fed babies have better immune sysems than bottle-fed babies." This is not always accurate. I have six nieces and all were breastfed. My oldest was on formula and my youngest was nursed for the first week or two and they have stronger immune systems than the rest of my nieces. If research says they aren't as healthy, I must have some really special kids! But I spent a lot of money on my oldest because we had to buy everything and did not have a shower. We bought a changing table that we used maybe once! I wish I would have known all of this three years ago!

  • Christine Moers 2/26/2007

    You are SO right on target! I remember when we had a shower and people kept asking about the changing table - why didn't we register for one? WHERE'S the changing table? Whatever were we going to do??? ha! Three children and five foster placements (all in diapers) - and what do you know? We never needed one!

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