How to Prepare for Your First Baby

The basics are the most important thing. You'll need the obvious things, such as a crib, baby mattress, changing table, diapers, bottles, crib bedding and clothing. Other very basic essentials include diaper rash cream, baby wipes, baby powder, petroleum jelly and things like that. There are lists available online that expecting parents can print out or you can ask for a list from your doctor. A diaper bag or something to carry everything in and a changing pad for changing diapers on the go is important. These items should be pre-packed and included in your hospital bag ahead of time. Always include a change of clothing, bibs and burping cloth in the diaper bag. Newborn socks and onsies are also important. Babies often go through many changes of clothes, especially newborns.

If your finances don't permit you to purchase each and every baby item (such as a baby wipe warmer, a changing table or diaper disposal container), it's okay! You don't have to have everything and many parents do without. For example, I have a changing table for my child, but never had a diaper disposal container or wipes warmer. My sister-in-law never had any of those items for her daughter, because she could not afford them. A child can always be changed in a bed or on a blanket on the floor.

Preparing for the birth can be scary, especially if it is your first time (and sometimes even for parents who have had other children). It's important to read up on the type of birth you intend to have and talk to your doctor about a backup plan in case things don't go right. Tour the hospital or birthing center where you will be having your baby and ask as many questions as you need to. Create a plan of action to follow and practice following the plan so that everyone knows what they are supposed to do in advance and doesn't have to think about it. Talk to other parents, but try to speak to positive people who have had good experiences. Parents often forget how scared a new parent might be and may give a little bit too much information or exaggerate what happened during the birth.