How to Be a REAL Woman
I wouldn't go to a bakery to get advice on planting crops, and I think that the best place to get advice on men is from a man. That being said, the secret is VERY simple. Be a REAL woman. My advice doesn't apply to all men, but it DOES apply to the men you would want to have as your partner, now and forever.
Being a REAL woman is fairly simple, so without further delay, the secrets to being a woman (in a man's eyes).
1. Be Strong - When a man is ready to settle down, and wants to find a wife, the assumption is that he will most likely want you to bear children with him. That being said, who in their right mind would want a weak woman to help raise their children? We want someone we KNOW will look out for our kids, as well as keep us in line. This in no way means we want someone who is bossy. Quite the contrary, we want someone who is level headed, and doesn't need constant reassurance.
2. Have Confidence - Don't wear make-up, don't look for validation, and believe in what you do. Men don't want someone who seeks our approval. We want a woman who knows who she is. The most beautiful woman in the world can turn any man off with any number of questions resembling "Do I look fat in this dress?" The answer that is always in our head is "You tell me."
3. Figure Yourself Out - A lot of people, both men and women, think that finding their significant other will complete their life. This is far from true. Only YOU can give yourself a satisfying life. There is much joy in sharing your life with someone, but don't expect to find out who you are because of who you are with. The strongest, most intelligent, most handsome man in the world can be your husband, and you could still be lost. If you are totally unsure of yourself, your life, and your beliefs, don't expect to be settling down anytime soon. It won't do you any good, and isn't something mature men are looking for.
4. Men Don't like Projects - We don't want to tell you what to do, how to do it, etc. That isn't to say we won't give you advice when asked, but if at all possible, men DON'T want to change you in any way. That being said, we don't want you to change us either. If you are going into a relationship, or find yourself in one for years, and feel the inkling that you can "make him better," drop that thought. It can only lead to bad places.
5. Don't Compromise Yourself - If you are ever in a relationship, or considering one, but realize you will have to give up part of who you are, then stay away. Often I see men and women falling prey to this. If you can't be yourself, you won't be happy, and you also won't be everything you should be for your mate. If you choose to give something up on your own, that is different. Whether it be smoking, drinking, or college, don't give anything up for ANYONE. Always be who you are, and in this way and this way only, can you find your perfect match.The bottom line is, love yourself for who you are, and love your man for who he is. If you can do both of these things, you will find love. More importantly, however, you will be happy. That is the most attractive quality you can have.
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Post a CommentKnowing the difference between men and women, or the difference between what it means to be primarily masculine vs being primarily feminine, which is better (kidding) will make great sense of what a woman is! Or a feminine being. Today I am going to spend some wonderful time at Victoria's Secret. There I will experience a sense of empowerment from my feminine peers and I will be inspired to be more fully me! Being fully myself is a beautiful thing. This is w2hat the real women who I have learned from have taught me.
Wonderful! You my kind of man :)
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@Silense - It's so great when someone actually knows what they want. Thanks for the comment!
Yay, common sense. Yeah I know, there are a lot of articles out there that give all kinds of wierd advice for relationships when in truth one phrase says it all "be yourself" and then see what happens. Be yourself and actually get to know the person your in a relationship with because since everyone is unique you got to treat everyone differently according to whoever they may be. Now the challange for me is finding that guy that doesn't mind settling down but who does NOT want children. That seems to be rare...everyone that settles is all "let's procreate". Procreation is a very bad idea for me if only because I don't want to. And those that don't want to shouldn't. But that's an entirely different topic.
@ Nipsy - Thanks for your kind words! Welcome to AC!
I could not agree more with this this article, thank you for stating what too few women know or understand. I have to admit, for awhile, I was one of them, and still have my moments, but those are few and far between.
I love the spirit of this article. May I ask what you meant by "Don't wear makeup"? Makeup isn't a signal to the world that we think we're ugly. Makeup is fun. It's fun to play with color and creat something new and accentuate what you have.
Tye, thanks for your comments on both articles, it's just too bad they didn't help you, as it sounds like you already have things under control. Thank God for women like you.
Awesome!! I am a woman and I totally agree. Many times I hear women say I want a man with this and that, but you yourself are far from what you are sking for, and how would you expect this mystery man who has this and that to even be attracted to you when you have nothing at all to offer. A relationship is about balance, and when you as a woman become balanced within yourself, spiritually, mentally, physically, and financially, then he will come, because you attract what you are. It's the law of gravitation, a beautiful thing. To Adams comment about compromising, I think he took you the wrong way. I think what you were trying to say that he misunderstood, is that it's okay to compromise, but not to the point where it starts taking away from you as an individual and person. Great read!!!