How to Reclaim Your Territory and Seduce Your Husband

Seducingyour Husband Can Be Fun and Can Make You Enjoy Yourself Too

Diane Cross
Men. The first draft of human creation , thus, they can be complicated. If you're still married to one, remember those days when they totally showed their devotion to you like that pet dog wagging his tai lat you forever? And after you married him, it probably was a great and awkward honeymoon, until you settled into a routione. You thought that was great - - at last - family life. He has adjusted to you and he is a basically good person who works to support you, heck, didn't even want you to get a job of your own because he said he was your princess remember? Now that you've been married for a couple of years, and after he held your hand sweated it out with one labor or two, you now are a family with one or two babies. Of course, after the first baby, he showered you with love and kisses and was only too proud to introduce you as "the mother of my baby". Of course he was proud, heck, the baby is somewhat his carbon-copy!

Thus after a few years, you notice he seems bored. He still calls you "honey" but not with that mushy tone anymore. It's just "Honey, where are my papers? ", before he goes to work. Oh, and he forgets to kiss you goodbye sometimes, "because he has a rush meeting". Then it gets worst, he fogets your cellphone number and doesn't call you except to ask ,"Honey, what's for dinner?". And then you begin to wonder if you have got two wrinkles or if the baby's made you lose all the mystique

When you begin to feel insecure, seduce him back. Kiss him hard when he comes home and lightly spank his ass, then give him a naughty wink. Of course he'll wonder what got into you, but that's good - it means you're beginning to be a mystery again to him that he would need to unravel. All men are biys, they like solving puzzles. While watching TV with the kids, pretend that the TV doesn't interest you and stare at him AND pretend to be "caught". "Blush" if you can or give him THAT smile.

Dinner is a good time for seduction. You can touch hisfoot with yours and say something like, " I wish we had osters because I heard they were aphrodisiacs". There are a lot of "stupid seductiove" things that he would appreciate - - in most cases, the mushier and the more stupid, the better ! REALLY! Come up with spontaneous remarks at the dinner table like, "Kids, your daddy looks different tinight.. he's still so handsome" OR "You kids are so fortunate to look like your dad".

That's the way start reclaiming your territory, should you feel the need to do so. It can mean acting a little silly, but it will also do you good because you will also feel sexier as you go through the seduction game. THe best way to seduce a man isn't just the secual overtones but also giving him a feeling of importance. If he manages to fix a light bulb, declare he did a superb awesome job. Clap if the kids are there and show them that you love their daddy.

Nothing works better! He's your husband, you know more about him than any other woman on earth, except his mother. That makes him an easier prey to your seduction.

Published by Diane Cross

Hi! My name is Diane and you can call me a small county woman. I love writing and reading and I normally and traveling. I believe in Holistic healing. laughter therapy, HOPE and I still believe that one day...  View profile

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  • Guest2/8/2011

    This article has many spelling and grammar errors. I have read better written articles from junior high students.

  • Michelle5/21/2010

    I will do everything for my husband. Our relationship now is very passionate and still burning, I'm using all of tools of seduction. And he's begging for more dat after day.

  • what??12/8/2009

    can't anyone spell right?

  • mistie5/1/2008

    well i think i would have a nice talk to her and tell her how you feel then i would seduce the hell out of your husband take him out to eat then go to a hotel at your expence and put some naughty laungree on and do things to him he would never imagine you to do buy a wig and make your self as sexy as possible that is what i would do change your appearance and make him lust for you the way to a mans heart is through his stomach and his penus

  • Angela2/11/2008

    My husband has a new best friend, who has a new baby and a husband, but she is always looking for my husband, now he says he does not love me anymore, he fell out of love three weeks ago, is that infatuation, what do I do to get him back, we have been marry for eight years and have two beautiful girls, how can i seduce him this valentines day. help please.

  • mrs. married too2/4/2008

    well hun, some men just are not the type to give compliments and maybe his way of making love is not how you think it should be. One thing I do know is that men dont like to be told what to do , so telling him to give you more compliments will always cause fights. My suggestion is to dress up very sexy and act like its just nothing and trust me he will know its for him and he will compliment you on it. Sometimes when you try too hard to please your man it might turn them off, and it will drive you crazy, he he really loves you being sexy in your own waywill be good enough for him!

  • Leslie9/28/2007

    We've only been married a month... I think wehad sex last week, but I'm not sure. Something just isn't right. I don't think my husband finds me attractive or sexually interesting. I'm not sure what to do. I am trying to be smart and objective about all of this... suggestions? Seriously. We've been living together for a year. When we first started living together I brought up the fact that we never made love (and that he never complimented me) and it just caused fights. I asked him what I could do to be sexier to him....Nothing.
    Help. Advice?

  • sadgirl9/8/2007

    can i find a guy to seduce

  • nana9/8/2007

    am still virgin but i dont find man to seduce

  • Holly8/31/2007

    hmmm...cut my comment off. guess i exceeded the character limit.

    anyway....he loved it.

    my point is....little things like that can really catch your man off guard and spice things up. men love to feel important and needed just as much as we do. we've been married for almost four years and we haven't run out of new and exciting things to keep our marriage and sex life thriving. but we are both very open to new ideas. that doesn't mean we have an open relationship..it just means we like to experiment with one another.

    don't be afraid to step out of your comfort zone when it comes to sex with your man. let loose and enjoy it.

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