How to Recognize a Player
Tips to Recognize Relationship Players
They can be romantic
Players are con artists in a way they resemble romantics cause they can be very sweet and use romantic tactics on the people they are seeing. You can say they are good actors except its not really an act they are very romantic. It comes very natural for them to be romantic cause they are. They don't however wear their hearts on their sleeve like romantics do. Romantics can be hurt where players usually cannot be hurt cause they are not serious about any one relationship.
They are very likable
Its hard not to like them. They can be very persuasive and they normally had many relationships in the past. Even after they are gone you will have fond memories of them.
Players cannot be controlled
If you think you will land a player and make him yours you will be sadly mistaken. If you really start getting serious and demand a commitment from them they will be gone. You will not be able to tie them down. Once you try they will leave.
They can be very convincing
They will tell you that they love you and you only but that is further from the truth. They can convince you that they are faithful and do not cheat. They don't really like getting too close or making commitments. They will try to convince you that every thing is kool and make promises of commitment down the road.
When it comes to commitment
It not that can't make commitments its just that they know they won't be able to keep them. So they refrain from committing. They enjoy playing the field too much. If they were to make a commitment they know they would not be able to keep it. They don't want anyone they have been seeing to think bad of them so they won't allow themselves to be put into that situation.
They love to flirt
They are the biggest flirts. They just cannot help themselves. If they see someone they like, they might want to meet, they will flirt. They are not inhibited in any way when it comes to talking to someone new. Most people want to be like them. At least the uninhibited part anyway.
They are careful
They usually don't get caught cause they are very careful. Even if they do get caught they have not made a commitment so they usually get away with it. If they do get caught and lose a person over it no harm no foul they just move on.
They leave a long trail
They leave a trail of the people they have seen. Most of the people cannot find anything bad to say about them other than they don't like to commit to anyone.
So, if you have been dating someone for a long time with no commitment they maybe afraid of it or they may be a player and have others they like. If they cannot and won't commit its best to move on no matter how much you care about them. Players rarely settle down and until they are tired of the game. Some never do.
Published by Timothy Scheiman
I am 59 years old and I have been buiding and fixing computers for many years. Last year I started writing at AC. I found it fun and profitable. It also gave me a chance to share what I know. View profile
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Post a CommentPeople who are very romantic don't want to be tied down to low lifes and over controlling klingon nag brats, thats why we are called players
It's only natural to love players, they often feels challenging and are really fun to be with. They also have great abilities of leading funny conversations, and knows lots of good stories.
And by the way. Players aren't disgusting. It's not like they force you to do something you don't want to. Grow up, and stop being ignorant.
NB* I'm referring mostly to check-up-artists, not psychopaths or whatever you girls end up with.
One last thing. Look at the headlines. I could made a big bet that the dream guy is;
romantic, likable, uncontrollable, determined("convincing") and flirty.
In other words(if we just pay attention to the minor headlines in this article), a PLAYER! Conclusion: You all want one!
I liked the article by the way. Love the subject. :)
Wow, girls. The easiest thing in the world is finding a nice guy that would do anything for you. The only glitch, is that he won't make a self-confident move on you in the bars, and he won't hit on you on the bus or at the mall. You have to realize that to get what you want, you can't expect it'll just fall right into your lap. Everyone you find cute, funny, or has his own sort of style IS DEFINITELY skilled in what he's doing!
The best way to find interesting boys are to open guys, start the conversations yourself. Just take initiative before the players target you, because they will. Never give yourself totally over either. If you can bring a challenge, it's definitely a great way to get the person interested.
But girls never seem to learn anyways. Personally, I can smell a player or check-up artist just by watching one single approach. You almost can't miss it if you pay a little attention to their way of behaving around girls. However.. It's only natural to love players, th
What happens when the player ages, like 50-54, once a player always a player I presume. Disgusting.
Great article: To bad I didn't read it before I got played! Payers are controlling and incapable of loving anyone but themselves.
Interesting how similar the description is to the behaviour of someone who has narcissitic personality disorder, or antisocial personality disorder (sociopath)... a little disturbing really, to think that so many men in western culture fit this description...
Good article. While these are common sense, some people don't recognize these things when they are blinded by their feelings for someone. You did a good job. :-)