How to Have Safe Sex All the Time

Jeanne Marie Kerns
Safe sex these days is something that seems void these days. No matter how many times it is announced how important safe sex is, people still just do not get it. Here are some ways that everyone can have safe sex and benefit from it.

Being responsible is the first step to being safe when having sex. If you have no responsibility, then you have no business having sex with anyone but yourself.

Condoms, condoms, and more condoms. If you cannot afford to buy condoms, then go to your local emergency room or clinic and ask for some. If you have no way to get condoms, then you should not be having sex in the first place. This is when mutual masturbation comes in handy.

Make sure she is on the pill, has had the shot or has an IUD. There are too many unwanted children in the world today, we surely do not need anymore. Be advised that these specific female contraceptives only provide safety from pregnancy, not from sexually transmitted diseases.

Do not always assume that it is completely up to the male to provide safe sex scenarios. If you can play, you can provide as well. Men and women both who are sexually active should always carry condoms around.

Pick and choose wisely. Do not think that your going to be safe if you go to a bar or club and choose the best looking person there to go home with. Truth be known, that person was there the night before last doing the same thing. If you like one night stands, make sure you know they are healthy. Don't be fooled by good looks, make good choices or it can mean your life.

Stay away from the drugs and alcohol if you are bound and determined to have sex. Both items bring on forgetfulness, forgetfulness is not something you want around when trying to stay safe.

Keep all sexual toys clean and put away when not in use. Best thing to do is use those disinfectant wipes on your adult toys. Kills all the germs and bacteria with just one wipe.

Last but not least, if you are having anal sex be sure to have your partner wear a condom at all times. The skin is much more thinner and can become infected a lot quicker. Never have vaginal sex after anal sex until you have cleaned yourself or changed condoms.

Published by Jeanne Marie Kerns

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