How to Seduce a Man (for the Shy Women)

Ever wanted to be that woman who oozes sexuality a seductress or goddess in your own right It's really not all that complicated as you might think. You don't have to do rituals, or buy certain inscense. You don't need the latest bottle of pheromones (although it would not hurt). All it takes is the want to be with a little added flair.

Show more confidence, even if you have to fake it at first it will become second nature to you Always walk with your head up never looking down to avoid others. Eye contact is the single most important thing you can do. Once you lock a man in with your eyes then you can begin to reel him in.

Show the man or men you want that you are interested in them. Even if you get a little nervous do not shut him out or shut yourself down stay calm. Men want a women that sends a clear signal of wanting him back. Avoid all the talk you have been told about playing hard to get, that rarely works. Men love a woman who sends clear signals. Smile, flirt and entice him.

Be yourself just with the added flair of confidence and sexuality. Don't change your personality; if he is interested in sports and you are not don't lie just be honest. You don't have to have everything in common to be a good match. If this is someone you might want to have more than just some fun between the sheets with then you won't be able to keep up your act forever and he will be upset later on realizing that you lied to him.

If you are feeling sexy, let him know give him that look. Every woman knows how to give that look the one that says exactly how turned on you are, that you want him as much as he wants you. Don't look away from him, show him a sign, whether it's licking your lips, playing with your hair or a flat out "I want you" works just as well. Touch him maybe a light brush of his fingers but look at him as you are doing it.

Take a dance class, learn how to move your body in a sensual way. You can practice at home as well. Look at yourself move, feel yourself moving know you are sexy and men want you. Dancing can be very erotic for both you and your partner.

Bring your playfulness out, wink at yourself in the mirror or shake your butt in the mirror after you put on a sexy pair of panties. Be playful with the guy you want as well. It's ok to laugh and have fun and just enjoy the company.

Get yourself some sexy new clothes. All women look good in something, find out what fits you and wear it. Red is the most attractive eye catching color there is and men convey that truth all the time by never being able to look away when a women is dressed sexy in red. Add some red to your wardrobe. Don't worry if it's not you, it will be if you want it to.

When it comes to sex, don't be afraid to tell him exactly what it is you want, if you really enjoy something he does let him know it. Also don't be afraid to ask him exactly what he wants and don't be afraid to try something you have not before done. Sex is not something that should ever be boring, there are many positions learn them. There are many spots on yours and his body that offer pleasure to be had, figure them out. If you have never been too comfortable with your body try masturbating more so that you can better learn your body and the pleasure that it can be brought to.

The main key to becoming a seductress is the belief in yourself and your own sexuality. If you love your body then they will too.