How to Sexy Dance

I never understood people who halfway dance. If you're going to dance, sexy dance! Dance is supposed to be sexy. Dancing is sex. All the animals do it to attract mates. What, do you want to half dance and be lonely for your whole life or put it on the line? Whenever you dance from now on, you're going to sexy dance. Here's how to sexy dance in 3 easy steps.

Whether you are sexy dancing to mambo, salsa, ballet, booty shake, classical, waltz, jazz, or hip hop dance, the first step to a really sexy dance is to connect with your body. Whatever you feel like doing, do it. The best sex happens when you don't think, right? So does the best dancing. When your hand is on a fire, the message to move your hand does not go through your brain. So when you're on a date with your boyfriend or girlfriend, and they want to dance, you have to have that same mentality. Let your body go to really get sexy and sexy dance. Watch Tyra Banks on any of her many shows. She's very spontaneous and a great example of what I'm talking about.

After you connect with your body by removing your mind from the picture, the next step to sexy dance is to connect with your partner. The best and most sexy dancing on all these TV dance shows like "So You Think You Can Dance" is when you can see that the partners might just have sex after the show is over. Giving yourself the freedom to sexy dance will allow you to focus your attention on your partner, and notice the best about what he or she is doing. Make eye contact. What are their eyes saying to you? Focusing on them will keep you from focusing on yourself, which will further free you to sexy dance.

The final step to sexy dance, after you let your body go, and focus on your partner or date's sexiness, is to connect yourself with the music. Different music will make you want to do different things. Different beats will touch different parts of you. Let it. Do not inhibit your movement at all. The sexiest dance is done slightly offbeat, when the dancer is not even trying. Music today has a lot of bass, which is helped by the pure power of today's speakers. Bass is a wave which physically moves you, like an earthquake. Don't fight it. The reason music is music is because it rhythmically matches waveforms with the natural rhythms of your body. Finding that rhythm is sexy dance. Remember, let go, watch your partner, and move with, not against, the music. Now let's see your best sexy dance!