How to Get Your Sexy Feeling Back

The first thing you need to do in order to feel sexy is begin to "think" of yourself as sexy. This is particularly difficult this time of year when our skin is dried out from the electric heat in the office and in the home. Then there is the hair: dry and brittle. The sweater your grandma gave you for Christmas may just be the first thing you grabbed because you slept that extra five minutes this morning, because you were too cold to get out of bed. Then let me guess - you grabbed your coffee( the best part of your waking up) to only dehydrate yourself even more. Dashing out to drop off the kids and welcome to your overwhelming pile of stuff to do at work. This is no way to feel sexy. Claim your sexy and get it back!

Turn your cell off. Grab some scented candles and clean up your bathroom. Make your environment sexy, and you will begin to feel sexy in your environment. Start with telling yourself everything you like about you as you run your hot bath water. Add some bubbles and/or bath salts. A couple drops of essential oils can make it smell very sexy. Pour yourself a HUGE glass of water. This will keep you hydrated as your spa like water will dehydrate you. Drink water because it is good for your skin and organs. We humans do not get enough water in our bodies and therefore our skin breaks out and we feel tired. Sometimes all you need is a ice cold glass of water to start the sexy.

Next groom your way from head to toe. Slather on a hair mask and add your moisturizer to your face as the steam from the bath water helps it soak into your pores. Shave and put on lotion as soon as you can. This will soak into your pores and like your face you are likely to retain moisture longer, then be sure to take care of those dry cuticles. Clip, file and slick on some clear nail polish. This way you protect nails from the cold thus preventing them from breaking. Then put on some pretty underwear and a soft camisole top. Just wear anything to keep moisture in for a little while.

The final step is to genuinely feel relaxed and sexy. Feeling sexy is the key to attractiveness. You might do everything right. The job, the kids and you are a good friend, but you miss the mark in the love department. Be sure to love yourself and take the time to treat yourself the way you want your partner to treat you. This is very important. You will begin to attract people of like minds when you radiate that genuine good feeling from within all the outside "goodies" are just a bonus!

Last, just remember, never let someone else determine your worth. This is so important I will say it again. Do not rely on anyone else to make you feel good about yourself. Their opinion is not important! You must realize you need to find someone who likes you for who you are. Do this by feeling 100% perfect the way you are. If they do not like you the way you are then they are not the right one for you. Everyone has someone out there for them.