How to Shop for Plus Size Cocktail Dresses

This time of year, many plus size women are desperately looking for the perfect plus size cocktail dress to wear to holiday parties. We all want to look our best when we go out, and this guide to shopping for a plus size cocktail dress will help you do just that, by focusing on style, fit and fashion.

Shopping for a Plus Size Cocktail Dress - Style

Contrary to what you may think about yourself, there is a dress out there that is flattering to your body - it's all about knowing your body shape and what works for it. The cut and fit of the dress is important. A-line dresses start narrow at the shoulder, then flare into a wider hem and are great for every type of body. They will balance the torso with a large bust and disguise wide hips and bottoms. Empire waist dresses will help to hide thick waists or large tummies, and balance out smaller busts. Princess dresses, made of figure flattering vertical panels, can hide your tummy and help to create a longer, leaner look - great for minimizing wide hips. Whichever style works best for your body shape, don't buy a smaller size, thinking you'll lose weight. It's better to take in a dress later than to have it hanging unused in your closet.

Shopping for a Plus Size Cocktail Dress - Fit

Once you've decided on the style that works best for your body shape, find a dress that fits you well. Make sure it's not too tight across the bust, and that the neckline doesn't gap. Check the waist, that the material falls over curves in a way that complements your figure - don't pick a dress that clings tightly to your body and accentuates what you're trying to minimize. An important tip to remember is to never try to "hide" your curves with accents like belts or bows. These tricks only draw attention to what you're trying to hide. Check length in front and in back - make sure you aren't showing more than you want to! Dresses that are too loose or too tight both have the unfortunate effect of making a plus size woman look bigger. If necessary, take a friend with a critical eye.

Shopping for a Plus Size Cocktail Dress - Fashion

Large floral prints are out - instead, try dresses with narrow pinstripes, tiny polka dots or solid colors. And of course, don't forget the traditional 'little black dress'! When you find a dress that works for you, you want to make the most of it. While trendy styles may seem fun, remember that the classic styles never go out of fashion. A simple black or solid color dress can be dressed up or down with accessories and used over the years. If you love sleeveless styles but don't like your arms, consider taking a shawl to cover your shoulders.

Following these simple guidelines of style, fit and fashion can help you when shopping for a plus size cocktail dress. Look for a classic dress that fits you well, and play up the fashion with accessories. Find the cut and fit that best accentuates your body type. And have fun looking fabulous.