How to Show Him that You Care

There are tons of ways that guys can show their girl that they love them. But what can girls do to show their guy how much they really care? Well there are actually ways and trust me, he will pick up on your efforts.
First of all, be playful with him. The most successful relationships have been linked to keeping humor and play involved in them. Wrestle around with your guy, he will enjoy it. You can even take it as far as playfully nudging him in public and then just smiling at him when he looks at you. Also, keeping play and humor in a relationship is not only healthy but it shows affection. Watch romantic comedies together, even raunchy comedies and then quote them together later on. The laughter and jokes between each other will keep him knowing that you care for him and when he does it back to you, it is also showing that he cares as well.

Guys love confidence in a girl, it's been proven during several poles. When you and your guy go out to the club together, dance! Even if your guy is not a big dancer, just start dancing with him. Your confidence with him in public also shows him a lot about your feelings for him. I mean think about it, if your at a club and every other couple around you is dancing and your guy doesn't try to dance with you, what would you think? Using public displays of affection (in moderation ladies, no making out in a crowded place unless your both into that), shows your guy that you have a comfortability level with him that doesn't change when others are around and just knowing that in general Will assure your guy of your love.

Also, compliment him on his appearance every once and a while. As girls, the guy is usually the one telling us that we look nice, however, it is nice for them to get some appreciation about "looking good" too. You could even be on the phone with a friend, in an area that you know he can hear you and tell your friend how nice your guy is looking tonight. It will up his confidence and let him know you care so much, you talk about him with your friends.
Let him know your thinking about him throughout the day when your not together. Send him a sexy text message randomly from work telling him what you want to do later on with him. It will not only turn him on, be reassure him that no one else around you during the day gets you like he does. Come on girls, the guys need to feel special too!

Try something new in the bedroom! It has been proven that guys find it very attractive when girls are no embarrassed of their sexuality. Show him that your willing to try new things in bed and especially if you just do something new, catching him off-guard, he will love it!

Take interest in something that he loves. It's no lie that everybody has different interests in life and it is near impossible to find a mate that loves everything that you do. I know for instance that my boyfriend of 6 years loves to watch UFC matches and I was never really that interested in them. The first time I watched it with him, I actually enjoyed it and he was totally into it! Let him think that he is teaching you things about his interests,even if you already know about the topic. When he thinks he is showing you something new, it makes him feel "important" and happy to be with somebody he can show things to.

Have a night with just the two of you. Get all dressed up simply to just share a night at home with your significant other. He will be excited that you got all dressed just to see him. Engage him in conversation and have some wine together, rent a movie or just hang out together. Once he sees how much effort you put into your appearance for just a night with him, he will know that he is the only one that you want to impress and it will turn him on. (I know everybody says guys don't notice, trust me they do. They are just not as vocal with their feelings as females).

Kiss him out of nowhere. Randomly just walk up to your guy and kiss him. It will show that your attracted to him and care even without being in an intimate situation.
Take him out for a night, on you. I know they say that the guy should always buy but it sure is a treat for them when the girl takes control, picks the date setting and even Pays! It will show him that you love him regardless of if he always buys. This one is a total relationship booster in general from my experiences and observations.

Give him a massage! There are a few ways to a guy's heart and one of them is to give them an amazing massage. He will not only feel special but he will be surprised if you just start rubbing his shoulders out of nowhere.

Well, there's some ideas ladies! Don't go overboard with anything though, going out of your way in a relationship sometimes can scare guys off. Only do these things if you are with somebody special who you could see yourself with for a long time. And remember, guys DO have feelings too, they just don't express their feelings like females ,but doing some of these things, at least for me and my friends, helped our guys open up more.