How to Solve the Struggle Between Writing and a Social Life

About three years ago, my best friend was so angry that I was tied to the computer all day and not going off with her to socialize. We had hung out together since we were young children living next to each other. She accused of being addicted to the computer; but I was going to college online, writing, and running a new non-profit organization. She didn't see the fruits of my labor, which really upset me and almost cost me my writing career.

When facing this conflict, a writer may feel overwhemled by the adversity that arises from those who don't understand what you are building. Only you can develop your career, so spend more time looking for ways to continue capitalizing on your freelance writing abilities. Sometimes, family members may feel you are wasting your time or you are addicted to the computer. However, instead you are building a lasting career, which just may top what they are doing in their own career.

If you choose to become a freelance author, then give it 100 percent just as you would a regular job because it is your budding career. Honestly, no one will ever understand what you are doing, unless they are dedicated as you are to your freelance writing career. Also, avoid the subject with someone, who is being negative towards your accomplishments. This way, their negativity will not detour you from seeking the writing career you choose to mold.

Here are some valuable tips that a friend gave me, when I faced this dilemma in my life and almost gave up freelance writing altogether. First, never allow anyone to tell you to stop writing or to cut back in time you spend earning money. Second, stop defending yourself to them, because they will never understand the way that freelance writers and the internet go hand in hand. Third, take a break and spend some time with them, so that they don't feel as if you are shutting them out.

Unfortunately, can't feel the satisfaction you feel, when you see your work published and gaining fans on the internet. However, they can eventually see the progress your making, by looking at how happy you are in your new found career. Forget what others think and embrace what you love, because your success or failure come from your own skills and talents. Always remember, it is your life and you must succeed or fail on your own terms...not theirs!

Now, I have a writing career that my best friend and I both are proud of, plus I overheard her bragging to others about my accomplishments. This was surprising to me, since my initial decision to follow my desires to create a writing career cause so much havoc. If you are facing this dilemma in your new career, keep working hard on building your own dreams. Therefore, you will be able to enjoy the freelance career you have built, instead of fighting with others about your lack of social time.