How to Spot Abuse in Seniors
The caregiver is seen by the elderly person as necessary for them to survive. The one being abused becomes like the child who won't tell on the abusive parents. Many times to compound this, the person is ashamed to admit what has been done to them. It makes them feel like less of a person to say that they are unable to defend themselves. So, pride stands between them and the help that is needed.
Many seniors lose weight because eating isn't fun anymore. If they are being malnourished, it can be attributed to their reluctance to eat. The only sure way to discover this is to find a way to watch them eat. Take some fruit or snacks that they enjoy. If they gobble it down like the are just ravenous, it's a good sign that they are being provided too little to eat. Repeat this each day for about a week, if possible. If the senior starts to gain weight, report them to the state senior abuse hotline .
Bruises are a common part of aging. Skin tears are also a common occurrence . Even frequent falls that result in bones being broken are not necessarily signs of abuse. You have to get yourself into a place to observe how the caregiver interacts with the senior. Listen to voice tone. Watch for unnecessary restraints. Look for marks that indicate finger or hand marks caused by a blow. Have the doctor check broken bones in the arm for breaks from twisting.
Pay attention to the attitude of the senior. Does he or she act like a whipped puppy when addressed by the caregiver? This can be sign of mental abuse. Listen for words like worthless and stupid or phrases like "you're too much trouble." This can be indicative of abuse. Verbal and mental abuse are just as illegal as physical abuse if proved. Any type of coercion may be a sign of abuse.
Talk to the person privately. Ask the hard questions about how he or she is being treated. Remember that you may be dealing with mental impairment. This may cause positive answers to still not be accurate concerning abuse. If you suspect abuse, consult with a professional. Checking with two or three different professionals would even be better. Sometimes those in social work are inclined to shoot first and ask questions later.
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