How to Start a Sexy Secret Life

Spies used to use what is known as a dead letter box to communicate covertly. It had to be something that wouldn't stand out like a hollow tree, a book or a rock. So why not get in touch with your inner agent and start a secret mailbox? Whether you have kids or just need a little mystery use your underwear drawer as a D.L.B Just make sure to put your frilly/lacy/silky undies on the top.

Perhaps you could start by leaving the first note in his favorite magazine. Casually let him know that there is something that he might be interested in on page 35 and leave the room while he checks it out, be sure to write your codename and address on it for example: Cynthia Wallace, Bedroom, Top drawer on the left. Buy some red lipstick and leave a real kiss at the bottom, you can even spritz it with your perfume.

Start an affair with your spouse, write your number on a napkin crumple it and leave it in the drawer. When he calls tell him that your husband is going out of town, plan a date together and give him a time to pick you up. Do something different to surprise him possibly super sexy lingerie, if you're not feeling quite so bold change your hair and wear an outfit that makes you feel confident and desirable. Tell him not to wear his ring it will make it feel more real and people will react to you differently, it will feel naughty.

If you get a hotel room check in as Mr and Mrs Smith if you would prefer to stay at home use the guest room and put mints on the pillow. If you don't have a guest room, use a new comforter on the bed, to create a different vibe. Have fun.

Martina McCullough