How to Talk to Your Child's Pediatrician During a Well Visit

Do make a list of questions for the doctor. If your child hasn't been sleeping, you'll probably forget to ask about it in the exam room. It's easy to forget things when we are put on the spot. Write these things down so that you remember to bring them up.

Don't expect that the doctor will remember everything from the last visit. If something important was discussed at the last visit, such as an illness or injury, write it on your list and give the doctor an update.

Do tell the doctor about any milestones your child has reached since the last visit. There are a few that the doctor will ask about, but include anything else that you think might be relevant. Also tell your doctor of any concerns you may have if you feel your child is delayed.

Don't get frustrated if the doctor asks you the same questions as he did at the last visit. He may need to continually ask these questions to make sure that your child is on track developmentally, and to make sure that she is not regressing.

Do research before getting any immunizations. You may decide in the end that the benefits outweigh the risks, but you need to be aware of those risks.

Don't rely on your doctor to give you all the information you need about vaccinations. He probably has that information printed out somewhere in the office, but don't expect him to just hand it to you. Research beforehand, or specifically request the information from him.

Do tell your doctor about any illnesses your child has had since the last visit. Even if the doctor treated your child for an illness, he may not remember. Remind him.

Don't allow any vaccinations to be given to your child if she is showing any signs of being sick. A lowered immune system increases the chances of harmful side effects from vaccinations.

Do be as thorough as possible in the shortest amount of time. Your doctor needs to know about any important events in your child's development, but he doesn't need to hear about her birthday party last week. The doctor is pressed for time, so unless he is a family friend or specifically asks about these things, they're better left unsaid.

Don't leave out important questions or milestones in the name of saving time. The doctor does have other patients to see, but if you need more time, take it. Don't leave the office until you have had all of your questions answered and your mind is at ease.