How to Talk Dirty to Your Boyfriend: An Added Spice to Your Life

Whenever I get into a conversation with my female friends about love and sex, the question "How to talk dirty to my boyfriend" regularly comes up from one woman I know or another. It's a matter of wanting to find that special spice that may be missing in the relationship or perhaps just wanting to add more to what is already there. Regardless, talking dirty can really turn a guy on and raise those hairs he may or may not have on his body.

Men and women are certainly different! Men are visual creatures and women are arguably a lot more emotional than men. What they both have in common is that words can really make a difference in how they feel about another person in a relationship, physical or emotional.

So, you want to know "how do I talk dirty to my boyfriend?" Well, one of the best ways is to sneak up behind him when he is least expecting it and tell him how hot he makes you. You can choose the verb to use, but make sure you communicate to him that he is making you feel a certain sexual feeling. Whisper it to him - this will drive him mad. Even further, take your fingers and massage his earlobes while you're whispering whatever it is you're saying.

Men love to hear how great they are, even if they're not that great! A man's definition of talking dirty may very well be different than the average woman's definition. You want to make sure than when you're talking dirty to your boyfriend that you use very descriptive, sexual words, coupled with telling him how sexual what does makes you feel. Guys love to hear that they are turning on a woman; it makes them feel as though they are conquering the competition. This may sound hilarious, but it is true of most men.

"Well, I want to know how to talk dirty to my boyfriend when we're in bed." This is the big topic that comes up in conversation amongst my friends more often than any other element of "sexy talk." It is through the act of love making that men go nuts for a dirty talk.

Depending on the sexual position you and your boyfriend are in, the one that has the most impact for talking dirty is when he's on top. He's in control in this position and an added comment here and there about how much love what he's doing, or you yelling out how much you love a certain body part of his while drive him through the roof. Don't be afraid to just blurt it out with some volume. Whispering in his ear while in this position works too, but a wild woman than can't help but yell out those sexual items which she loves while in bed will help to make a man love his sexual experience even more, and by doing so will heighten your experience as well. When my female friends say to me, "well, if I learn how to talk dirty to my boyfriend is that going to fix our sex life, or at least make it better?" Well, I can't tell you that it's going to fix any problems you're having in bed, but it will absolutely make things more interesting, and that's a start. And if things are great already, then talking dirty will only help.

One last tip for you - when you're in public with your boyfriend, at dinner, the movies, walking in the park, whatever - tell him you're not wearing any panties or underwear, or tell him that you are hot for him and want to find somewhere to have sex as soon as possible. Talking dirty to your boyfriend in public places will make your relationship that much more spicy!