How to Tell If Your Girlfriend is in Love with You

If you are in a relationship with a girl and things are becoming quite serious then chances are you are wondering if she is in love with you or not. Nobody wants to put themselves out there and tell their girlfriend that they are in love with them only to be shot down. Because of this it is best to look for signs that your girlfriend is in love with you before you jump in with the 'L' word.

One of the biggest signs that your girlfriend is in love with you is the interest that she shows. If she is always staring at you and asking questions about small things chances are she is already or is falling in love with you. If your girlfriend, on the other hand, rarely shows interest and seems to lack attention when you are talking about your day chances are she is not that into you and probably not in love with you.

Another thing to look at when trying to gauge whether or not your girlfriend is in love with you is time that she wants to spend with you. Typically someone in love with you will be borderline obsessed with you and want to see you every time there is a spare minute. While alone time is good and healthy in any relationship if your girlfriend seems to constantly want to hang out with friends, especially when the two of you already made plans, then chances are she is not so in love with you and your relationship - at least from her perspective - is a far more casual one. If your girlfriend seems to regularly break dates for other things that are not very important events then this is a good indicator that she is not in love with you.

Hopefully you will be able to take these points and adapt them to situations and the type of relationship that you and your girlfriend have in order to determine whether or not your girlfriend is in love with you. Remember, all relationships are unique but these are fairly strong indicators and for the most part universal as to whether or not your girlfriend is in love with you. Take what you learned in this article and use it to find out whether or not your girlfriend shares the love that you feel for her. Remember also it may just be too soon for her, feelings often grow so just because things are on this level today does not mean that all is doomed for eternity.