How to Tell If He is Already Married!

There is nothing worse then falling in love with Mr. Right, only to find out that he's already married and living a secret life. Ladies, it happens more then what you might think. Over 80% of married men that cheat on their wives, tell the "other" women that their single. So, how are you supposed to know if he is telling the truth or not? It's easier then you might think. Here are 10 simple ways to tell if he is lying about his marital status, before you get your heart broken.

1) Look for tan lines where a wedding ring should be. It's not 100%, do to the fact that he might be recently divorced, but if ones there, it's enough proof to justify some more snooping into his life. If by chance he's still wearing his band, send him packing.

2) If for any reason he won't give you his home phone number, it's more then likely that he has a wife at home.

3) By the 4^th or 5^th date you still haven't been to his house, or know his address, it might mean Mrs. Right lives there to.

4) Are you dates scheduled at odd times, such as 6:00pm every Friday night, and never any other night or time? Ask yourself why.

5) He gave you his cell phone number, but never answers it, instead he returns your call shortly. Is someone standing near him, and he don't want them to hear, like a wife?

6) When he returns your call does it seem like he's whispering, or always outside?

7) When you two are out on a date, does his clothes smell like another women's perfume? Unless he's selling perfume at the mall, it belongs to another women.

8) In his wallet, does he have photo's of another women, or family. Trust me, not many men carry around pictures of their aunt.

9) Do you know where he works at? And are you sure he works there? If he says he's with the CIA or FBI, chances are he's lying. Secret agent man's only top secret job is hiding his wife from you.

10) If you know where he works does he "freak out" if you stop by to bring him lunch. After all the last thing a man wants is his co-workers knowing the truth, and hanging it over his head.

If you think that there is a chance that he's lying about being single there is ways you can legally find out the truth, without hiring a private detective to do the work. First, ask to visit his home. Make sure to use some lame excuse like " I'm going to bring dinner, and a movie, my power is out" if he says "NO" you have a problem. If he says "yes" , use the opportunity to snoop around. Look under the sink, in the powder room, and places like that. Remember, your searching for anything female. Tampons, perfume, lipstick, photo's, etc, can tell a whole different story then the one he's telling.

After all the snooping, if you still have questions, then it's time for court. Marriage license's are public records. You can find out if he's married, or if he's ever applied for a marriage license. All you'll need to do is visit your local court house. This public information is usually free, and if you want copies of the records they are available for a small fee. If you want to make sure he's not married in another state, you can request that information as well. A nation wide search can cost up to $20.00, but that's less that a private investigators hourly fee's, and a lot less then a broken heart.