How to Tell If He is Cheating
Is He Really Who You Think He Is?
There are so many ways for the guy you are head over heels and deeply in love with to hide who he really is. You may not even pick up on the signs at first. A way to tell that he isn't what he seems to be as far as cheating is concerned is if he all of the sudden has to work late. This may not seem weird because everybody has to work late every now and then. If it happens all the time as in almost every single day or every week on certain days then you should really reevaluate the situation and look into to it. Find out if he is really staying late at the office or if he is seeing someone on the side. You can do this simply by just calling the office to tell him you love him or to tell him to meet you some where after work to hang out. If he is there than great you can have a good time when he gets off of work. You have to worry though if the person who answers the phone told you that he left work at the regular time and its Three hours after that time. This can mean that he is cheating or it can mean that he was involved in a traffic crash on the way home but if you call his cell phone and he answers only to say he is still at the office after you have already called then you can start to worry.
Another way to tell if he is possibly cheating on you is if you are use to constantly spending time together and all of the sudden that all stops. One day he says I am going to go hang out with my guy friends and I'll be home later on tonight and he is gone for a day or two with out calling and he doesn't answer his cell phone when you call him. Another thing suspicious is when he chooses to stay nights at a time at friends houses who constantly have unknown females that he brings home staying over at his house. This could mean that your guy is getting the hook up as well.
You may also call your guys cell phone only to hear a unknown females voice on the other end answer the phone saying she is his girlfriend or you may hear his cell phone ring and answer it to hear a unknown female asking for him and when you ask who she is she replies I hooked up with him at the club last night whose this?
He may even lie to you about who he was with and where he is going. Or you may get into his car to drive to the store only to find something feminine that belongs to a female other than you such as a bra, panties or a piece of paper with a females number on it that you don't know. You may possibly even find a condom wrapper on the floor that you know he didn't use with you.
Another thing you should pay attention to is if you go to the clubs with your friends and boyfriend and they claim to have seen him all over some girls while you were away in the bathroom or doing something else such as getting something to drink or eat. You should listen to them especially if this happens almost every time all of you go to the club. There are so many single attractive females looking for the hook up at the club. Your guy may take advantage of this while you are not around.
These are just a few ways that you can tell if your guy is cheating on you. If you are that serious with your guy and you believe that he may be cheating and you want to know for sure you can also higher a private investigator. The private investigator will go under cover and follow him around then get back to you with results. It could just be your insecurities messing with you making you believe that he may be cheating but it could be your gut instinct telling you that something is wrong and he really is playing you. Cheating can happen to anybody no matter who you are so hopefully it will not happen to you.
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Post a CommentI'm afraid if my gut tells me I need to hire a private investigator to watch my boyfriend, than I need to save my money and forget about the guy. From past experience, if your instincts tell you a guy is cheating, he probably is. Getting a guy to admit it is another story. Some will deny it until the bitter end - even if you catch him red-handed. He'll try to make you think you're crazy. Unfortunately some women don't want to believe it and they end up staying with the loser. In any case, no one should put up with it. I'd say if he no longer wants to spend as much time with you and isn't interested in sex, unless you're abstaining because of moral reasons, something is going on. No longer saying "I love you", less frequent calls or messages, and a lack of interest in the relationship are all bad signs.
hey my name is sarah and im 15, ive bin going out with this lad called john hes 17 we have bin going out nearly 7 months now and i dont like it when hes going clubbing with friend i get suspicious that hes doing something he shunt be doing and i love him loads and im scared if he has done something while clubbing i might do something to my self it would break my heart because i love him and i want to be with him for the rest of my life but is he cheating??
Why would you even have to list such an obvious "clue" as another woman answering and telling you she's hooking up with him? That's pretty much catching him red hand... or other appendaged... Also, you never know... finding panties in his car might mean something COMPLETELY different. You may have stumbled onto something very disturbing about your man... Emma: not enough info to make a judgement. Dannielle: he's nailing her. Christina: I'm actually more like a monkey =). randon lady: inconclusive. Jane: who cares if he is cheating. That guy is an absolute loser! Act accordingly. CUT!E: He's cheating. He's playing you. He thinks you're gullible. There. Problems solved! -Cray (http://geudelbuoy.blogspot.com, http://www.ninjaandy.com)
my boyfriend is startig to being wierd he alweys looks at his phone for texts and says he got used to it from me sending him messages when im there with him?????? eh
I think all men are dogs! That's why i just stya married to my guy.I look at it this way,why keep going through guys.When they are all the same
I think all men are dogs! That's why i just stya married to my guy.I look at it this way,why keep going through guys.When they are all the same
hi im dannielle ive been with this guy for 2 months and at first he was really nice to me like it should be at the start of a relationship. but then things are starting to get weird. he keeps going out with his friends around town in clubs and a few days ago i got told off his ex girlfriend that he had sex with her when i was ment to be with him. i dont know whether to belive her because ever since we have been with each other people have been trying to split us up. is this jelousey? or is he really cheating on me?
Hi my name is emma ive been seeing this lad for 2 yrs
know and hes dead nice to me . But all of a sudden he
has changed towards me like he dosent spend as much time with me as usual and and he dosent ring me anymore
When i ask him do u still love me he says yes and sometimes i think hes to good to be true cause when we talk he douse treat me good but has he cheated and do ya think he just trying to sweeten me up
This was a horrible waste of time. Any one can figure out that if they find a used condom in their man's car that he is probably cheating, or another females bra in his car. Come on come up with something good. Oh and like we all don't know if some other female answers our mans phone and says she hooked up with him at the club last night, come on we can figure out for ourselves that he is cheating, did not need you to tell us that much. Sorry this article is awful!!