How to Tell If He's the One

You are able to resolve conflicts together. If you fight but you always make up then it's not bad but if one of you is holding a grudge it will slowly eat away at your relationship. The ability to forgive and forget will hold a relationship strong and always remember to listen to each other.

Do you have the same interests? Laughter really is the best medicine and having your partner around should be like hanging out with your best friend. Liking the same things will keep you close to one another and be sure you'll always have something to talk about.

Having similar backgrounds in the areas such as finance, intellectual and spiritual preferences will help keep a couple strong for years and years to come. If you are both in the same religion is will be easier as this is something you can share together, however having different religions is not always a deal breaker, as long as you both accept each other's differences and try to understand and embrace the new everything will be great. For a couple to connect intellectually, you should both be on the same page otherwise you or the other will get bored with the lack of riveting conversation and mental stimulation.

Sharing feeling is very important in any relationship be it your boss, family or your partner. If you can communicate the good and bad feelings without any fights and dismissal then that's a great thing and it should work both ways. Your partner should be able to talk to you about things he is concerned with and the things he is happy about.

Getting along with your partner friends and family must come into the deal. Sometimes it can be a chore to put on the smiley face for his friends that he only sees once a month but it's worth it, put in the effort to get to know the type of people that your partner spends his time with other than you, they will probably be a reflection on the type of person he is. Also the more his friends like you the more they'll be trying to convince him you're the one! Having a great relationship with his family will always make you life much easier in the present and future. Win over his mother so you never have to hear her mentioning that nice Johnson girl next door who's currently single, get the hint?