How to Tell If He's Serious About the Relationship

He may not have said he loves you yet or even asked to be his girl but you can still tell by little things he does whether he's really serious about you or not.

How can you tell if a guy really likes you? By the way he looks at you or if he showers you with flowers or gets jealous when he sees you with other men? Actually you can't tell by any of these. Some guys do big showy romantic gestures for every girl they meet while others shy away from them. The only truly reliable way to tell if he's serious about you is to pay attention to the little gestures.

He Calls for no Reason

He'll randomly call you or message you just to hear the sound of your voice, using almost anything as an excuse. He wants to be with you so much that he feels the need to call you often and isn't afraid to let you know it.

His Friends Know All About You

If you hear him mention your name to friends of his who've never even met you and then notice that they know exactly who he's talking about, it's a definite sign that he's serious about you. It shows that he you're on his mind even when he's not hanging out with you. Also, the fact that his friends all know about you show that he wants you to be a part of his life and doesn't just see you as a temporary girl.

He Refers to the Two of You as We

His comments are obviously reflecting the fact that he already considers you as an integral part of his life.

He Wants to Know About Your Interests

He'll want to know all about your interests and hobbies and will listen intently as you describe them, even if they are topics that coming from anyone else wouldn't interest him much. He isn't just trying to come up with small talk, he really wants to get to know you better and understand what makes you unique.

He's Nice To Your Friends

He'll take a sudden interest in all of your friends and will try to get to know them better. Whatever their interests are, he'll try to please them to get closer to you because he knows that becoming friends with them will ultimately make him closer to you.

If You Compliment a Shirt He'll Keep Wearing It

This shows that he wants to please you and that when he gets up in the morning to get dressed he's already thinking about you. Even though he may only see you a few hours a day, he's willing to wear a certain clothing article for the whole day just because you like it.

He Opens Up to You

Guys find it notoriously difficult to share their feelings with others. So if he tells you about himself and talks about deeper issues such as how he feels about his family and life changing events, not just ranting about his day at work, it means that he's pretty serious. That kind of trust takes the relationship to a whole other level.