How to Tell If Your Man is Cheating

You've heard women say that they "should have seen the signs" after a breakup due to their man cheating. Well, I am here to tell you that if you look for them, you will find them - the signs they are cheating, that is.

It's been said that the cheating man himself will give you any number of signs that he is doing you wrong, I whole heartedly agree with that. The problem is that we are so in love or just scared of being alone, we simply ignore what is staring us in the face, in hopes it will go away.

Below you will find a partial list of "You're man is probably cheating if":

Cell Phone problems become the norm...

Cell phone lies

-He doesn't get good service

-Cell didn't take full charge, that damned charger, and so it died

-He's in a tunnel, on a bridge, an elevator? Anywhere he just can't get a signal

-He misplaced it or left it - at work, in the car, at his friends' house etc...

He just has to work late, AGAIN!

Now if he isn't in an industry that usually warrants clients' dinners and the like, then this is a huge red flag. And if his job does require the odd late night at the office, yet you get no answer when you call his direct line, he's most likely lying.

Becomes the Biggest Loser

He starts watching what he eats and joins a gym. If you've been nagging him for years to get into better shape and gave up because he just wouldn't change. Then he suddenly agrees with you with no prompting, sorry, but it just might be for a new squeeze.

An eager assistant

Does it seem that you're losing your mind? Are you second guessing if you really did pick that new shaving cream up for him? Have no fear though, he saw that he ran out and will just run down to the store to grab a new one. Did you just say you need to put milk on the shopping list because you're running low, and he grabs the car keys and says he'll pick that up lickety split? I do believe he's trying to grab a stolen moment with "her".

Please hang up and try your call again

You start getting hang up calls at home or on your cell, or worse yet the silent call, the one where you can hear someone breathing. She may have wanted to hear what you sound like, or just trying to shake you up a bit.

Zestfully Clean

Is he coming home and heading straight for the shower? If he isn't a construction worker or hitting the gym everyday and doesn't like public showers, he is probably washing a scent off that you aren't meant to smell.

The defense rests your Honor

You seem to be arguing more these days especially over inconsequential things. He is just really hyper sensitive and will fly off the handle at the smallest thing before stomping out. He can give Perry Mason a run for his money because this is his "get out of jail free" card with an added bonus of you not calling him, because hey, you're mad too.

And the biggest in your face sign, the most important as well Ladies:

Your gut says he is

A woman's intuition is a very real, very strong and often ignored sense that God gifted us.

If you feel like things are a bit off, that things aren't quite right, you may be right. And in this day and age of deadly diseases it's not just your heart you need to look after.

So, woman up, and find out what you don't want to know. Ask him directly or find it out on your own, but do it now.

I don't meant to sound unkind or harsh, I simply believe you deserve better than to be disrespected.

Good Luck All