How to Tell If Someone is Looking at You

An Easy Tip and a Bonus Practical Joke

Ali Canary
So, let's say there's this cute boy in class or at work or on the bus, and you are pretty sure he likes you. You swear you can feel him looking at you when you are turned away, but whenever you look, he is looking away. Is he looking at you? Your friends have told you he is, but you aren't sure. You would really like to see for yourself if he is looking at you, but he has been very good at hiding it. How can you tell if someone is looking at you if they always turn away too quickly for you to catch them looking?

It's a very simple trick: All you have to do is make sure you are not looking at him, but when you feel like he is looking at you, just yawn. If you don't feel like you can yawn for real, you can fake a yawn (you might want to practice this first). Then look up, and even if he looks away in time, he will not be able to keep from yawning himself-you know how contagious yawns are! You can't see someone yawn and not do it yourself. You might even be yawning now just because you're reading about it.

You might have to try this a few times, but it is a good way to know for sure if he is looking at you. If he isn't, you can always look around to see who else is yawning; you might be surprised! Just make sure not to do it again if you have already caught him once, because he will probably be able to figure it out.

Here is a good joke that uses the contagious power of yawning: If you are in a choir and feeling bored, just wait until someone makes eye contact with you and then yawn. If you can't yawn for real, just pretend. Do this any time someone looks at you. They will yawn, and anyone who looks at them will yawn, too, including you, because you will get caught up and have to yawn for real. Just try not to laugh! Shortly half the choir will be yawning instead of singing, and your choir director will be so fed up! It's very entertaining. I made this up myself in my eighth-grade choir class, and I know it works. Enjoy!

Published by Ali Canary

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  • Abby Greenhill2/12/2011

    Fun stuff! How are you?

  • Thomas Lane2/9/2011

    When social custom does not require me to stifle a yawn, I usually put some verbalization into the noise. Once at work, i was standing within earshot of the (primarily Korean) data entry girls. I yawned "Hua Guo fong!' (Then the predident of China) and the girls began blushing and tittering. They never did tell me what they thought I said.

  • Kristen Wilkerson2/9/2011

    Clever!

  • James Fenelius1/29/2011

    Fun read.

  • Jennifer Wagner1/25/2011

    Well aren't you a smarty pants! Never though of yawning at someone! I get random stares in restaurants sometimes; you know, those people that like to stare while the eat. Grrr...

  • Mary Oberg1/16/2011

    I'll have to try this!

  • Mae Wong1/14/2011

    Hahaha I never thought of the fake yawn theory but that sounds like something to try. Did you know that human yawns are also contagious to dogs? I tried fake yawning to my dogs (since they are watching me) but that didn't work though..

  • Sheryl Young1/13/2011

    Cool! I usually can tell they're looking at me when I turn real fast and look at them!

  • Abby Greenhill1/13/2011

    pv love, suffering thru the flu and bronchitis....

  • Theresa Wiza1/12/2011

    So even in the 8th grade you were creative!

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