How to Tell If a Woman is Attracted to You

Guys we can easily confuse a woman being friendly with a woman liking us. Next time you have a moment where you can't read her signals please refer to this guide for help. You don't want to miss an opportunity or look foolish when you try to respond. Also included are tips on how you should respond if you like her. Here are three areas to focus on to see if she's attracted to you.

Key things to remember are that you should treat a woman you are attracted to or want to be attracted to you like an extremely bored person. Someone who engages them and shows them a good time will be far more attractive than someone who doesn't. Women like men who are funny, charming, interesting, and offering a better night than they had planned. Take them to restaurants, bars, clubs, events, etc they've never been especially if they have some kind of attraction or strange quality. Women digest information by talking and if she's telling her friends about her night with you and it is full new and cool things then her friends are going to confirm that. I have an article on fun date ideas here.

Body Language

Her body will tell you everything you need to know about what she thinks about you. Even if she acts uninterested look for these clues to see what she is really thinking. Remember women do not like to let guys know they are attracted to them. They want to build sexual tension. She wants to want you with passion.

• Plays with her hair while you're together: twirling, pulling, single strand twisting, etc are all signs that she is attracted to you. She probably doesn't even know she's doing it.
• Smiling from ear to ear with a lot of teeth.
• Leans forward while you're talking. If she's distracted or slumped to the side it's a good indicator she isn't interested.
• Faces you with good posture. Back straight with her shoes pointed at you is a strong signs she's interested. She's trying to show off her best assets while drawing attention away from areas that make her uncomfortable. Pay attention to what she is trying to draw attention to and complement her on it later in passing. Watch her face and see how she reacts. If she smiles and looks down or away to avoid eye contact then she's interested. Some women also deflect complements so try to make it a subtle as possible. If she does deflect then tease her to keep things fun.
• Head tilt means she's listening to you.

Actions

These are the most important and all kind of work together. Be sure to watch for the set up to any of these. Like asking the time and then touching your arm to look at your watch. Also pay attention to her entering your personal space.

• Small quick contact: hands touching, arms touching, touches your shoulders, touches your knee, brushes past you with her body, etc. These will be real quick and often seem like nothing, but pay attention to how often they happen. If they happen often or in a row she's interested.
• Coincidence(s) are a big sign she could be interested. If you keep running into her in places you always go it probably isn't because she goes there too, but learned that you go there. Or she paid attention to you enough to gather bits of your schedule. This means she likes you, but isn't ready to have more formal meetings. So she wants to see how you operate on the fly.
• Laughs a lot even when you aren't that funny. Women love to laugh and if you're a regular riot with just one particular girl it means she's trying to make you more comfortable so she can get to know you better. If you're relaxed then she is relaxed.
• Makes dinner or wants to make you dinner. Granted these aren't the same thing, but both have the same meaning. She wants to:

A. Invite you over.

B. Do something nice for you.

C. Test her skills to see what you think. The dinner has little to do with cooking, but your response is how you feel about her. So if you like her, like the dinner. If you like the dinner then you like her.

• Plans future events they can be as small as meeting up with friends or going to the movies, but plans means she wants to see you again.
• Questions are a good sign because they mean she wants to know more about you. Be sure to answer them, but don't bore her. If you can't think of anything to say make a small joke out of it.
• Complaining can often come off as annoying, but try to see how you can fix the situation. For example if she says she's cold then offer your jacket. She's giving you little hits most of the time. Now if she's just complaining about everything then it doesn't really matter if she likes you because you're leaving.
• Hugs can be very normal greetings and farewells for women. Try to see if she hugs anyone else, if you can't do that pay attention to hug duration. If they feel long then she probably likes you. Also what parts are touching you, if her entire body is pressed against yours then she likes you, but if she's bent to create a space between you then you're only friends.
• Flirting can be anything from a lot of joking, touching, silly behavior, etc. Just be sure to flirt back.

Focus

• Attention is a good sign because that means she's interested in what you're doing or what you're saying. Act distracted a few times and see what she does. If she acts out, gets louder, or does something else to grab your attention then she likes you.
• Breaks eye contact even when she is the one making it. She doesn't want to let on that she likes you yet.
• Remembers things you say even if they aren't important at the time. Pay attentions to things you say about yourself because that means she likes you.
• Adapts to your complements or statements. If you say your favorite color and then it creeps into her wardrobe then she likes you. Tip - Remember what you tell her and see if she changes to accommodate it.

Watch for these signs to see if she likes you. If you like her then use this information to your advantage and follow the tips to ensure that she stay attracted to you.