How to Tell If a Woman is Into You

She Loves Me…Not!

Shalwah Evans
She's Into You if…
She buys you small non-occasion gifts. From a pair of socks or boxers, to an astronaut pen because you write in bed-certain gifts say "I like you." Women pay attention to small details. So never think that a small gift is just that. It is actually her way of saying that she pays attention to your likes and needs, and she cares.

She's Not Into You if…
You haven't met her friends. Her parents aren't the gateway to her heaven. There are even tougher critics to get through. When a woman really likes a guy she will almost immediately want to introduce him to her friends. She wants the approval of her biggest support system. She also wants to know what they think and wants to be sure that she's dating a quality guy. So if it's been a few months and you have yet to meet her frirnds, chances are you're just a fling.

She's Into You if…
She's interested in your friends. She doesn't memorize the tag names Peanut, Lil' Mike and T because she wants to have beer with the boys on Sunday. Your friends are important to her because they are important to you, and you're are important to her. She will endure your best friend's karaoke version of "Baby's Got Back" with a smile if it ensures that he will walk away proudly. Your friends are not really that cute-the girl digs you.

She's Not into You if…
You communicate mostly through text messages. It's no secret that women love to talk. Getting a phone call from a potential male interest is always exciting. So if every time you call her she texts you a brief message about how swamped she is, take a hint. A phone call always beats a text, even if it's only for a minute. No matter how bust she is, a woman will always find time to make a quick call. So if you're finding your inbox half full but your voicemail empty, it's time to let go. She already has.

She's Into You if…
She's interested in your job. Most people who are passionate about what they do tend to speak about work often. If her eyes are glazing over or rolling up in her head as you practice pitching a new proposal, there's trouble. But if she's at attention, ask questions and makes comments or suggestions, she's interested. She might not know anything about real estate or investing, but hearing you speak so passionately about it will make you absolutely dreamy. Her interest in your job, which she knows absolutely about, is a reflection of her interest in the things you love and what makes you happy.

Published by Shalwah Evans

Born and raised in Brooklyn, Shalwah Evans grew up in a household where children were taught to speak honestly and openly about what was going on in the world. And to this day she does just that. No matter...  View profile

  • Women show subtle and blatant signs when they are bored or interested in a man.
  • Consider modes of communication when trying to figure out if she likes you.
  • Once you realize a woman isn't interested, let go.
Marie Claire recently published a blurb that each June in Amarante, Portugal unmarried men and women exchange penis-shaped cakes to express their affection for each other.

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  • Dominick10/30/2009

    I've been seeing these signs from the same girl for years now. I'm interested in her too cause i've felt the same way just as long as she has. today is her birthday and i want to tell her i care.... any suggestions? I feel like i'm lost and sick cause i can't tell her.

  • Harold Sink3/6/2009

    It would seem to me that there is more to it than this.

  • john davies 4/20/2008

    well every woman different!! why can't you see that... we are now living in the age of text's so i don't know why you saying
    the woman's not into a guy if she text's back.. instead of makeing a call, Guys & girls do what feels good for you!! " everybody different"

  • ?2/3/2008

    whatever everyone is different!

  • Jane12/28/2007

    I dunno...I prefer to text message in general over phone conversations....doesn't mean I'm not into my boyfriend!

  • ebrahims@gmail.com8/26/2007

    How to attract women and how to start conversation and joke with her.
    Many thanks.EB

  • Rick11/4/2006

    Great advice. I see it happening all the time thru other friends. Women do like the smaller things in life that guys pass over.

  • Joel Burns5/25/2006

    appreciate the help...

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