How to Throw a Great Bachelor Party

Bachelor parties are a fun part of getting married. I think they are a right of passage. Every man should have a bachelor party before they get married. Ladies, don't think that it has to be as crazy as the movie Bachelor Party. Many are not even close to that. I recently threw a bachelor party for my husband's friend. I made sure it was alright first with his soon to be wife. First we went to the wedding rehearsal and then the dinner. After that we had a small get together at my house. It was a very intimate party with only a few friends. I made hot wings, barbeque wings, a few kinds of dips for chips, and we had plenty of alcohol. That night all we did was sit around, listen to the radio, and drink. There are many other alternatives to this bachelor party.

First thing you need to do is find out if it alright to throw a party for the soon to be husband. This is a must, you don't want the bride to be upset on her wedding day, and this is her day! Next you need to find out where you are having it. You can have a small get together with only a few friends at your house or you can have a giant blow out at a strip club. If I would have had more time to plan our friend's we probably would have taken him to a strip club. Next you need to find out who the bachelor wants to invite. After that you can plan the party for the night before or a week before the wedding. It's not always wise to have it the night before because he might get sick at the alter. Another fun thing is to have a novelty cake. I won't go into the details, but it is fun to see the grooms cheeks blush when he sees it. There are only three main elements to throw a great bachelor party: friends, food, and fun.

You do not have to serve alcohol if you don't want. That night we had a great time, and it was a memorable experience for him. Ladies, don't get mad if your fiancé wants a bachelor party; just remember he's coming home to you. That's what's important. Just because he wants to go out with his buddies and drink and possibly see another woman's good, doesn't mean he doesn't love you. And remember if he can have a bachelor party, you can always have a bachelorette party. They are all equally fun. Whatever you do at the bachelor party, just make it fun and enjoy the night.