How to Be a Very Bad Girl

So, You Want to Know How to Be a Bad Girl?

Amy Wood
So, you want to know how to be a Bad Girl? Well, the first rule is simple: Bad Girls don't follow rules. Period.

Now that we have that cleared up, let me give you some suggestions how to be a very Bad Girl indeed.

1. Your New Life As A Bad Girl Starts Today!
If you're stuck in a rut, moaning and wailing how men have made you suffer, snap out of it! It doesn't matter for how long you've been manipulated, played or simply been forgotten by guys. Today is the day to start fresh.

2. Don't Be Available!
Bad Girls are busy. They have plans, meet people, and learn new skills. That's the ideal situation you should find yourself in. If that is not the case, you have to find things to do and people to see. Learn something new, visit a gallery, or workout. Make a list of the top-ten things you have always wanted to do. Yes, really, ten concrete suggestions you've always wanted to do. And then do them, one at a time.

3. Bad Girls Come In All Shapes And Sizes!
No, a Bad Girl is not wearing a size two and has long, blonde hair. She might, but the important point is, your weight and hair color has nothing to do with being a Bad Girl. Being a Bad Girl is an inner confidence that bursts through your skin. Confidence is the Bad Girls weapon of choice. If you think you are not confident, pretend! It works.

4. Bad Girls Know What They Want!
Learn to be demanding. Yes, that's right. Learn to say the words, "I want." Don't strive to be popular by selling yourself short. Never say Yes to something you hate.

5. Bad Girls Flirt!
Or to be more precise, Bad Girls strive to have fun. Guys are attracted to confident women. So go out and play! Aim to have a good time instead of securing Mr. Right. Furthermore, once you've sighted your object of desire, don't fall back into your old habits of being Miss-Nicey-Pants! Remember: Don't be available all the time. In short, have a life of your own without placing all cards on one single guy.

Bad Girls are self-sufficient, kick-ass woman, who know what they want. And they make damn sure that they get it, too!

Essential reading for Bad Girls:

Good Girls Go to Heaven, Bad Girls Go Everywhere: How to Break the Rules and Get What You Want from Your Job, Your Family, and Your Relationship
by Ehrhardt, Jana U.; Ehrhardt, Eve

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  • brittani willie2/24/2011

    well i was knida wanting to become a bad girl because i am wanting to get this guy i really like and he thinks that i am too good....anyway after reading this it seems kinda hard!!!!

  • kamaya white4/10/2010

    this leson has showed me how to be a very bad girl

  • Brianna 8/31/2009

    That was good. I would add that, also, to be a bad girl, you have to be a dare-devil. Like, go bungee-jumping or sky-diving. Or, if you go to school, do something like filling your teacher's car trunk with worms. I did that once. She was totally pissed. XD

  • Amy11/13/2008

    @patrick: I respectfully disagree with your comment. ;-)

  • Patrick Smith11/12/2008

    Though well written, this seems more like a list of "Not to do" things because if you follow these suggestions you will become a very self centered and selfish person which will make everybody around you dislike you very strongly.

  • Angela Atkinson9/5/2008

    Applause, applause!! I don't care what Luke says, I'm loving it.

  • lamehead5/27/2008

    that was awsome

  • Luke M.1/13/2008

    Interesting article. I guess you might say that it's helpful. It's certainly well-written.

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