How to Win Every Debate

When it comes to a successful debate it is best to remember that nothing is really as it appears. People may at first glance believe that the object is to win. They may believe that in order to do so you have to out prepare and out answer your opponent. The truth is, it is incredibly difficult to win. This stands true for either side. No matter how you choose to phrase your argument, even people who will be supportive of your position may not agree with your particular argument. People are fickle that way. It is near impossible to get into other people's head. It is even harder to speak for others effectively.

What should be realized is that by focusing on some simple technique, you can sway the minds of others and present yourself in a way that is inviting. During debate it is the one who is memorable and believable that will win the day. Here are a few things to keep in mind.

Promote dialogue. This is more important than coming out ahead in points. Ideally there is no arbiter of truth in any debate. It is about being most effectual to your audience. Keeping in mind that you want to win over those who are listening to you not specifically the point in question. It is being able to promote thinking amongst your audience and opening up their minds to new perspectives that will take you steps ahead of your competition.

Keep it personable. This is another point where it is critical to have a good understanding of your audience. If your opponent has charted out a careful plan of attack with careful points and counterpoints in a desperate attempt to win over support for his position, he may present a decent technical argument but he stands to lose his audience for that very reason. Keep it simple. By relating to personal experience and using simple language and examples that your audience can relate to, you stand a much better chance of leaving the type of impression that will win you more than the moment, it will win you the day.

Be stoic in your delivery. Remember, it's just a debate. There is no real right or wrong to the question. You could have very easily been asked to assume the opposing position and you would have had to approach it with equal conviction. So remember, it is not a person accounting of your abilities or commentary on your personality. As such, keep it matter of fact. Be personable and approachable but don't take it personally. This way you can approach everything from a rational perspective. Don't allow yourself to become irrational or lose sight of your objective. You are connecting with other people about how you want them to think so keep your emotional side to yourself. Be straightforward and stoic. This will sharpen your effectiveness.

Be descriptive. This is key. Remember you are dealing with human beings and their minds work and have been programmed throughout their lives to respond in a particular manner. The reason movies are easily the most popular form of entertainment is because they tell a story through pictures. This dates back to when you were a child and getting ready for bed and you parents opened up your favourite bedtime story. I can assure you there were plenty of pictures in that book. You loved it and probably asked to hear it over and over again. Adults really aren't much different. The more descriptive you are in your presentation the more effective you will be. Stick to concrete imagery when elaborating on your point. Keep painting pictures in your audience's mind that they can see and remember. Avoid abstract language that can get complex and confusing. The more they are able to "see" your perspective, the more likely you are to be remembered.

That's all for now. Best of luck with your next debate.