How to Win the Man of Your Dreams

Dating can be a battlefield, even if you have already found the man of your dreams. You may be second-guessing your every move, word, and thought to keep him attracted and the relationship moving forward. There are a few things you can do to win the man of your dreams and keep him at your side for the long haul!

Step 1

Don't be afraid to be yourself. If you are acting like someone you are not, the real you is bound to come out sooner or later. This will confuse him and make him run for cover. So don't pretend to fawn over his latest car if that's just not your thing. Let him know what does interest you and don't try to pretend to be someone you are not.

Step 2

Don't be too serious all the time. No one, especially a guy, wants to have deep and serious discussions all the time. Remember that guys have short attention spans and like to be entertained. So accommodate him and he'll enjoy being around you.

Step 3

Show your funny side. Remember to laugh at his jokes to show you appreciate his cleverness. This will boost your man's confidence and make him more attracted to you. Be careful you don't go overboard and "fake laugh" at his jokes, he can probably tell the difference.

Step 4

Be one of the guys. While your man wants you to look sexy and feminine what will keep him around for years to come is that he can be comfortable around you. So act like one of the guys around him. Be casual, joking, and don't be too sensitive.

Step 5

Play hard to get, even if he already has you. It's simple psychology - people want what they don't have. So don't make yourself always available to his every phone call. It doesn't matter if you are actually busy, or pretending to be busy. If you make it too easy for him he'll lose interest and feel smothered. Give him space and he'll be following you around!

Step 6

By following these helpful hints, you will be sure to attract a great guy. If you already have the man of your dreams, these will help you keep him for good.