How to Win a Woman's Heart

One of the most important ingredients in the decisive game of seduction is what we can define charisma. This is a term much more poorly understood and often misunderstood. Above is widespread belief that charisma is something that either you were born or you do not have them.

This common place is absolutely false! Charisma (as well as the anti-charisma) is an attitude that is acquired during a lifetime and it is therefore possible to develop easily at any time you want even if you think you are completely loser.

Beyond this, groped to attract a woman without having groped charisma is like climbing a wall of ice with leather shoes!

QUESTION: Did you ever find yourself in the presence of someone and, without any apparent reason, try an instinctive revulsion against that person?

Surely you've ever.

This phenomenon is due to the fact that this person was clearly anti-charismatic. And the exact opposite of being attractive and has nothing to do with the fact that you are well educated or a peasant. In fact you will certainly happen at least once in the past to attack button with a stranger and, despite your very polite manner, she looked at you with that look like "one more word and you tell him the gun that I keep exhaust her purse.

Ultimately, you may also be the kindest man, polite and respectful of the earth but if your charisma level is low, a woman would prefer a French kiss a jellyfish stinging rather than give you even a nanosecond of his time!

When a man anti-charismatic (albeit good looking) approaches a woman, it soon becomes bizarre and disturbing as gaining invariably negative reactions.

If you listen to women when they talk among themselves, you'll notice that often use terms like "Boring, painful, bummer," etc.. to describe certain men and certain things that some men do.

Now, as you can well imagine, is a wonderful thing when a woman uses certain words to describe a man. And you can also easily imagine that when a woman uses certain words, hardly attracted by the man he is talking about.

Well, it took me years of research and field experiments to understand what it means when a woman says, "And boring or so boring when he does this ...". And guess what I discovered? I discovered that a woman is expressed in these terms when a man holds ANTI-charismatic behavior towards him. Behaviors often typical of so-called "good guys".

Here's a tiny example of the many attitudes that we often us men and make us look anti-charismatic in the eyes of a woman:

-Calling all too often

Groped-to "buy" his interest with gifts, favors or compliments mushy.

-Groped by logical arguments to convince her that you are a good match.

What? You'll say! How can it be?

How can demonstrate your interest in a woman calling her frequently, covering her with gifts and putting it on a pedestal, can be seen from her as a bad attitude ? And I assure you that I have heard women say very attractive phrases like "I'm tired of being indulged in everything."

Where is the problem?

Let's see ...

Thus, contrary to what one might think, women are not witches, and then to judge a man, are bound to observe its behavior, its way of moving, dressing, etc.. If these signals, regardless of their nature good or bad, send a picture of the anti-charismatic person, she will always be taken to classify the man as "good boy weak, insecure and needy," good only as a friend (or a Cavalier serving, you choose ...).

This reasoning may seem a cruel generalization because it is natural to ask, but women are not just good guys never attracted to? We say that in some rare cases a woman may come to feel attraction for a nice guy but, when there is a choice between a nice guy and a man with the balls, she will always choose the man with the balls .

Now, this does not mean that nice guys do not have the balls, the problem is that if you in the presence of a woman you move and you behave in a certain way, you'll invariably classified as insecure, weak and needy, even if you are not absolutely !

In summary ... between a good guy and a man with the balls I advise you to behave as much as possible as the second!

Just remember that the attraction NOT A CHOICE! A woman can not choose who to feel attracted to and who not. Never feel a woman say, "Oh dear boy is a sweet, polite and sensitive, I guess I'll decide to try to pull him ...." NO! ABSOLUTELY NO! The attraction is a switch that is triggered independently of the will of the woman and only certain attitudes and characteristics of man (including charisma) can snap it ... nothing else!

I understand that it would be more logical to meet a beautiful woman, fill it with compliments, show caring, full of good intentions and achieve its interest. But here we are dealing with a instinctive mechanisms (many of them inherited from prehistoric) operating outside the threshold will and that are governed by laws far from logical or rational.

But the worst is to come ...

To further confuse you surely have heard women say phrases like "I want a strong man but sweet ..." or "I want him to continue to have his life, his friends and interests but also must devote himself to me."

phrases like these are seen too often in the presentation of matrimonial agencies.

Ultimately we can safely say that women look for in a man characteristics that are often in sharp contrast to each other ...

Why all this?

Women are perhaps a bit crazy? (Yes)

But seriously, what they intend to communicate these messages to say the least ambiguous?

Personally, when I had not understood the true processes of the female psyche, to hear those phrases I often say to myself "OK, I've got the sweet side, now I can do is go to the gym to develop a little muscles so to be in place including the question of being strong. "

OK, I'm kidding again ...

Now here's the real conclusion I have reached after the famous studies and field experiments. First, I realized that my approach was completely wrong. Instead of thinking of myself as a nice guy sweet, sensitive and carved with the muscles in the gym, what I really needed was to begin to act like a man with the ball, strong in personality and character, which only occasionally showed attitudes sweet and sensitive.

I always point out that to become strong and charismatic there is absolutely no need to become criminals!

Now, the difference between the before and after may seem like a game of rhetoric, but it is not.

When a woman says I want a strong man but sweet "really mean he wants a strong man and cakes, where the sweet side is optional or voluntary than strong.

This is why more often than women go out with people rude, arrogant and defiant rather than choosing the company of good guys who would be willing to kiss the ground where a woman walks in order to obtain a modicum of consideration.

Again, the attraction NOT A CHOICE!

Everything happens in an instant, it happened for a variety of reasons illogical that even women themselves can explain.

So the key question is what?

The key point is to understand that many of the things you do when you're in the presence of a woman with whom you are attracted, can be regarded discomfort while this woman maybe you're convinced of the contrary!

We must understand that sometimes you have to do things that are outside the "politically correct" if you give a woman what she REALLY wants.

Immediately stop doing things that in the eyes of a woman appear as anti-charismatic!