How Women Want the Men They Love to See Them

Most women have at least one thing in common; how they want the man they love to see them. Now of course, this doesn't mean every woman who exists, but at the least most of the women I have known over the years, as well as myself. Lets' take a look at how women wish their men would see them. Take notes guys; this could help make your relationship a living paradise!

The Most beautiful Girl In The World-

She may not be the most beautiful girl in the world in reality, but that's how she wants you to see her. Women have the belief that when you truly love someone this transformation of the heart goes directly to the eyes. It's as if all the qualities that her man loves about her is expressed on the canvas of her face. In simple terms, because her man loves her so much, no other woman could possibly be as beautiful as her.

Sexy and Feminine-

Women want o be seen as sexy and feminine, not just in Victoria's Secret and Fredericks of Hollywood, but in a flannel shirt, blue jeans, while lying in a hammock cuddled up with a puppy. It may sound crazy to the average man, but a woman likes to think that her man sees her sexiness and femininity deep down into her soul, not just on the outside covered up in expensive lingerie. I know it's possible, as I have seen a man doing something wonderful and gentle, and thought, he's the sexiest man alive. Although I didn't see him as feminine!

Loving-

Women want o be seen as loving, even when we have PTSD, hormonal fluctuations during menopause, or when we are just plain tired and grumpy. Again, we have the need for our man to see past the temporary bad mood we are in to the loving person we really are. I don't think anything hurts a woman more than being called a cold, unloving ....person.

Indispensable-

Fantasy or not, women want to believe that no other woman could ever take our place. No one could ever do what we do in the same loving way we can, for the people we love. We want to believe that the man we love couldn't possibly live without us; maybe that's why when a man divorces a woman it's so devastating. To us, it's like saying you can be replaced, and I can do just fine without you.

Great Mother-

Wow, this one's really important. Women want their men to believe they could not have chose a better mother for their children than her. Just the way a man puffs up because his wife thinks he's a success at the office, it's the same feeling for women about being a mom. Being a great mom means to a woman, that she is capable, nurturing, and can do the most important job in the world, raising up a human being that can make a difference in this crazy world.

Smart-

Yes, believe it or not it is important to women that their man sees them as smart. They like to believe their man is bragging about the great idea his woman came up with, not making jokes about how stupid she is. Women like to feel they make an important contribution to the family by being smart enough to handle anything that comes their way. Sheer perfection to a woman would be hearing her man say, I know if anything happened to me, she would be able to handle whatever comes her way.

Best friend-

Women almost always want a man to see them as their best friend. They want their man to believe they can be trusted to be confided in, and that we will be there for them. We want them to see that although we may get a little upset at first, that most of the time we can get passed whatever it is, and be there just to listen, and be compassionate. We want him to see we can be trusted, no matter what!

Strong-

A woman definitely wants her man to see her as strong. I don't mean she can move that couch all by herself strong, but a strength that sustains the whole family. Strong in a way that says no matter how hard things get I know we can get through it. A strength that never gives up, or never gives in. She can pull herself up by her bootstraps, and make it through. Her strength is just as much a part of his foundation, as his is, for her.

Pride-

Last, but certainly not least, a woman most definitely wants a man to be proud of her. That pride can be seen in his eyes, especially when others are around. He is not afraid to tell anyone, that no matter what his wife does or doesn't do he is proud of her, and proud that she chose him.

Well these are some of the different ways I have heard women voice over the years on how they want their man to see them. I am definitely included in most of these, if not all. Now again I stress, this is not how all women feel. You will have your feminists that probably think this is a bunch of hooey, and other women that can only relate to a few of these. However, this is what I have heard from a lot of women over the years, therefore it is valid, at least for those women, as well as myself. It's sure is amazing just how much women have in common when you look at it!

*Remember guys; there are none so blind as those who haven't figured out how to see!