I'll Be Om for Christmas

Number 1. Turn off the tv. All commercials are specifically designed to make you feel you haven't bought the loved ones in your life nearly enough stuff. If you listen to them for long, you will begin to believe them. It's their job.

Number 2. Cook an extra dish every day or so and freeze it. It will be waiting for you when the holidays arrive and you won't have to lift a finger.

Number 3. If you want to give handmade items this year but either can't make or can't afford them, barter. Offer to babysit for a mother who loves to crochet, knit, sew or whatever craft it is that your friend likes to do. I'm sure she'd love the extra time to enjoy her craft in peace and you'll get a lovely gift to give your family.

Number 4. If you must purchase some gifts, don't shy away from thrift stores. There are some really lovely things that can be picked up there for a song. Books, dishes, linens and sometimes even movies.

Number 5. Go out for a walk around your neighborhood and look at the lights. Take a cup of hot chocolate or tea with you and amble along. Enjoy yourself!

Number 6. Don't over-decorate. A few small touches around the home will make a big impact and be much easier to take down when the holidays are over.

Number 7. Give fun non-clutter gifts to teenagers. Many movie theaters have books of movie coupons. Gas cards are also a great way to go. Or make your own book of coupons good for gas money, mad money, a ride somewhere, the keys to the car for one night, etc. Get creative! Think of all the things the kids ask for throughout the year that you think, "Gee, I'd like to help you honey, but I spent all of our money last Christmas."

8. Have a tree-trimming party. Invite some friends over for hot chocolate and snacks. Watch a holiday movie and let them help you put up the tree and trim it. Perhaps you could make special ornaments for each of your friends; one to put on your tree as a lovely reminder of the special event and one for them to take home.

9. If you and your friends typically draw names and buy gifts for each other, why not pool your money and give it to a charity instead?

10. Try to remember last year's Christmas. How clean was the house? What dishes did you serve? What did you give as gifts? Can't remember? You won't be able to remember next year either so why put yourself through the stress of trying to make everything perfect?

Holidays do not have to be stressful. Give yourself a break and enjoy this magical time of year.