I'm Having Twins: Finding Local Multiples Clubs

Thinking of joining a local multiples club for parents of twins (or triplets or more)? The parents of multiples experience unique challenges and joys. And no one understands these better than the parents of other multiples. You really won't know the extent to which the insights of other parents of multiples can give you on health issues, financial troubles, and other topics will help until you join. But here are a few tips to get you headed in the right direction.

Tip #1: Start early.

Don't wait until your twins are born to start searching for a multiples club. These organizations can provide expectant mother with information on medical professionals that specialize in multiple births, gently used baby equipment, and most importantly, reassurance and support. Some clubs even pair expectant couples with more experienced 'mentor' couples that can help guide them through their experience.

Tip #2: Check out the national organization.

The National Organization of Mothers of Twins Clubs connects over 400 local clubs that span the United States. More than 20,000 families with twins, triplets, quadruplets and more! If you live in a metropolitan area, you're sure to find a chapter in your area that can provide you with the support that you and your family need.

Tip #3: Look harder.

If you can't find a national chapter in your area, don't give up searching. Not all multiples clubs are associated with national organizations. Try searching online for clubs in your area. Your local hospital or doctor may have contact information for local clubs.

Tip #4: Connect Online

Myspace and Facebook are just two of several sites that connect like minded people over the internet. Set up a page for you and your growing family and you will be surprised at how quickly you will find other parents of multiples! You can exchange information and tips and provide the same support that the larger groups offer. This is also a good way to start your own multiples club if you're having trouble in your area, or are unsatisfied with the ones that are there.

Tip #5: Read, Read, Read

Multiples clubs don't always meet as frequently as you'd like. You will most likely be paired with a mentor couple who will answer your questions as best you can. However, you want to make sure that you're able to take advantage of those rare opportunities where you'll have a group of families to bounce questions off of. There are lots of interesting books in most local libraries that cover everything from first trimester nutrition to college funding. And, if you join a national multiples club, they are likely to have a wealth of material available to you.

Whether you choose to join a national organization, or connect with a few families over the World Wide Web, it's important to reach out for support. Sure you can survive without a support network, but why re-invent the wheel if you don't have to?