Every person that is in your life is a reflection of your thoughts. Pretty amazing, isn't it? To think that you attracted the crabby postal worker that waited on you yesterday. But you also are responsible for bringing your mate to you as well. So how can we improve upon the relationships that are part of us? By being aware of our thoughts and feelings about ourselves and others.
With the Law of Attraction, feeling good about yourself is the first step in improving your relationships. The rule of the Law of Attraction states that any thing you focus on will come into being, via the Universe, and come knocking on your doorstep. For example: If you focus on a lack of love, the Universe will match your feeling and thought and bring you what you are concentrating on, lack of love through situations and people. If you focus on a loving relationship, then the Universe will match your feelings and thoughts and once again bring you what you are focusing on, a loving relationship.
So why does feeling good about yourself help improve relationships? Because when you have an inner feeling of love (and focus on that), situations and people that have a similar feeling of love will be brought to you. By your accepting who you are, others will accept you for who you are. The relationships that you want to improve will improve if you feel those feelings that you want the others in your life to feel about you. You know that old saying, "Treat others as you would like to be treated." By having this attitude, every relationship in your life will improve, even if it doesn't need improving.
This does go for family members as well.
Even though you can't fathom how you and your brother could ever get along, begin to see how you would like to be treated by him and then start treating him like you would like to be treated. Focus on the positive aspects of your relationship and see your relationship as improving in the manner you would like. When you do this, the Universe picks up on those thoughts and feelings and brings to you exactly what you are focusing on.
So many people say that if they had the perfect relationship, money, career, and health, they would be happy. But it really is the other way around. When you are happy and enjoy every moment of life, then all your desires will come rushing in.
So enjoy the people in your life and treat them like you would want to be treated. When you begin this process some of them may fall by the wayside because they are no longer in alignment with what you want, but others will begin to become kind of the person that you want to have a relationship with. But it must start with you, through the Law of Attraction.
Published by Beth and Lee McCain
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Post a CommentI did the laws of attraction experiment where you say to yourself for 30 days "Even though this situation looks bad (or hopeless or endless) I am opening a Window of Possibility to an unexpected outcome". What happened for me was, I got paid a lot more than I expected for my new job, I discovered AC and they actually paid me for my articles and my family has gotten along better. Would this have happened otherwise, I don't know. But I still say it to myself occasionally. great article!