Inexpensive Ideas for Prom

It truly is getting quite ridiculous: for one night, teenagers spend hundreds of dollars on prom. Just think of how many books that could buy next fall at college! But the good news is that it doesn't have to be that way. It is possible to have a fun and fashionable prom - without breaking the bank.

Dress

Of course this is "the" item. One must be properly dressed. While most guys head to the tux shop for a rental, most gals buy their dresses. (If you want to save some $$$ on a tux rental, have your teen go in to the shop with you and a couple of friends and get a "group rate.") So, here are some tips on dressing and accessorizing without spending a ton.

1.Shop online. There are literally hundreds of Web sites that offer inexpensive formalwear. You can find great deals on designer gowns or find great buys that look designer, even though they are not. Just make sure you order ahead so that the dress arrives in time to have it altered if needed.

2.Hit the thrift stores. The Salvation Army and Deseret Industries are two stores that often have nice things for sale. Find out when these stores usually put out the "new" merchandise and show up for first dibs. You can also usually find great looking accessories like retro glam handbags and sometimes even great shoes.

3.Check closets. Parents, grandparents, and other relatives often have clothes that work. With a little alteration, modern style can be added to many old clothes. And you might be surprised by the amount of classic accessories that others have hidden away.

4.Sew it yourself. If you have a knack for sewing, you can purchase a pattern and material of your choice. You can create a unique dress that you are sure no one else is wearing.

Transportation

Getting to the prom can get expensive. The good news is that it isn't necessary to rent a limo (some go way overboard and get stretch Hummer limos). Instead of forking out for a limo, how about renting a luxury sedan? A black Lincoln is cool, and much less expensive than a limo. Or, better yet, rent a convertible. This is a fun way to arrive in style. If available, it is possible to get a ride to the prom in a horse-drawn carriage. That's classy AND romantic (and much easier on the pocket book than a limo).

If all else fails, you can offer the nicest family car you have. Ask a brother or sister who is not going to prom to act as chauffer, and pay them. $50 to your own kid to drive your other kids around is much better than dishing out more than $100 for some stranger to do it.
After Prom

Many schools now offer fun "Post-Prom" parties. These include activities like roulette and poker with fake money to buy things in a "store," as well as obstacle courses and sometimes a moon bounce. Post-Prom parties are sponsored by the school are alcohol-free and usually do not cost much more than $10-$20 for entrance. Some schools include the party in the cost of the prom ticket.

You can also let your teen know that his or her friends are welcome to come back for a post-prom fete at your house. This will save you money, and you will know that your teenager is safe. Have plenty of videos and soda on hand and order pizza for the kids. Or just provide the munchies, and let the kids decide when and if to order pizza. This usually means that the kids will pitch in for their pizza. And, of course, try to stay mostly out of the way.

You can encourage your teen to head to a diner for dessert and coffee, hot chocolate, or tea. This is an inexpensive way to make the night last a little longer, and it has the feeling of being "grown up." Everyone knows that part of being a college student is heading to IHOP or Denny's in the middle of the night.