Integrating Yourself Positively into a New Church Congregation
You Won’t Always Feel like the New Kid on the Block
After visiting for a reasonable amount of time you feel led to become a member of that particular congregation. Now that you've signed "on the dotted line" you are trying to find ways to meet, serve and fellowship with others. Here are some options that might be available at your place of worship.
Sunday School
Although this ministry is often looked as something just for children, many churches also offer adult classes. This provides an opportunity for you to get to know people on a more one-to-one basis.
Singles Ministry
If you are not currently married this would be an avenue in which to participate. More than likely you will meet up with people who have similar interests. And who knows you might even possibly meet a future date/mate.
Greeters
It's always nice to be greeted with a smile when you arrive at church. These people make you feel welcome. But it is also a way of seeing people who attend on a regular basis that you can get to know a little better.
Men and Women's Ministry
Depending on the size of your congregation these are other ministries where you can meet others in a less formal setting.
Ushers
They look so regal sitting at their posts ready to do what is asked of them. One of their major duties is to escort members and visitors to their seats and giving them a bulletin. They may also pass out the offering plate. Because of their duties they have many opportunities to interact with people.
Small Groups
Some churches have gotten so large that small groups are implemented as a way to keep people connected with one another on a more intimate basis. This might be a time of prayer, fellowship and Bible study.
Prayer Meeting
This is a good time to meet with other members for a time of prayer. You can get to know a lot about a person when spending time in prayer with them. This is sadly one of the least-attended services but one of the most important.
Conclusion
By participating in ministries such as these and utilizing your gifts and talents, you will soon find yourself integrating nicely into your new church congregation. Be willig to come out of your comfort zone and initiate conversations on your own. While it is nice when others initiate it, there's no reason why you can't. Hopefully these ideas will help you. Enjoy the experience.
SOURCE:
Personal observation and experience
Published by Lee Hansen
I am a woman who enjoys the simple things in life. My parents raised 10 children. I have an Associate Degree in Medical Office Assisting as well as a Bachelor's Degree in Biblical Education. View profile
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16 Comments
Post a CommentGreat tips for joining any organization.
These are great tips Lee.
Very helpful article.
Great advice Lee and thank you:0)
Great article. Nothing like a church that celebrates Jesus.
This is an excellent article, Lee~We've been in that situation and now that we have found a church home, we feel like family~
Lee, this is great. The Church we are members of now welcomed us so warmly that we never left. We just moved to this area---several years ago---were looking for a Church home. This one was the second one we visited------
Good tips!
We found a place at Grace.
Grace Community - we arrived 11 years ago - began to serve (Saved to Serve!) and stayed put :) cheers!
Welcoming guests and making them feel like joining the church is an important part of any thriving spiritual community. When people find a way to share their gifts and serve the community, they will become committed to the community.