Integrating Yourself Positively into a New Church Congregation

You Won’t Always Feel like the New Kid on the Block

Lee Hansen
Have you ever found yourself going to a new church for the first time? Sometimes it can feel a bit awkward. Oftentimes churches will have a special time of recognition of guests and visitors. There are also churches that will have a brief reception after or in-between services to welcome you on a more individual basis.

After visiting for a reasonable amount of time you feel led to become a member of that particular congregation. Now that you've signed "on the dotted line" you are trying to find ways to meet, serve and fellowship with others. Here are some options that might be available at your place of worship.

Sunday School

Although this ministry is often looked as something just for children, many churches also offer adult classes. This provides an opportunity for you to get to know people on a more one-to-one basis.

Singles Ministry

If you are not currently married this would be an avenue in which to participate. More than likely you will meet up with people who have similar interests. And who knows you might even possibly meet a future date/mate.

Greeters

It's always nice to be greeted with a smile when you arrive at church. These people make you feel welcome. But it is also a way of seeing people who attend on a regular basis that you can get to know a little better.

Men and Women's Ministry

Depending on the size of your congregation these are other ministries where you can meet others in a less formal setting.

Ushers

They look so regal sitting at their posts ready to do what is asked of them. One of their major duties is to escort members and visitors to their seats and giving them a bulletin. They may also pass out the offering plate. Because of their duties they have many opportunities to interact with people.

Small Groups

Some churches have gotten so large that small groups are implemented as a way to keep people connected with one another on a more intimate basis. This might be a time of prayer, fellowship and Bible study.

Prayer Meeting

This is a good time to meet with other members for a time of prayer. You can get to know a lot about a person when spending time in prayer with them. This is sadly one of the least-attended services but one of the most important.

Conclusion

By participating in ministries such as these and utilizing your gifts and talents, you will soon find yourself integrating nicely into your new church congregation. Be willig to come out of your comfort zone and initiate conversations on your own. While it is nice when others initiate it, there's no reason why you can't. Hopefully these ideas will help you. Enjoy the experience.

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Personal observation and experience

Published by Lee Hansen

I am a woman who enjoys the simple things in life. My parents raised 10 children. I have an Associate Degree in Medical Office Assisting as well as a Bachelor's Degree in Biblical Education.  View profile

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  • Sandy James11/26/2011

    Great tips for joining any organization.

  • Betty Asphy10/16/2011

    These are great tips Lee.

  • Gabrielle Rice10/6/2011

    Very helpful article.

  • Delicia Powers10/5/2011

    Great advice Lee and thank you:0)

  • Lodie Quezada10/5/2011

    Great article. Nothing like a church that celebrates Jesus.

  • Annette Robbins10/4/2011

    This is an excellent article, Lee~We've been in that situation and now that we have found a church home, we feel like family~

  • Kathryn Neff Perry10/4/2011

    Lee, this is great. The Church we are members of now welcomed us so warmly that we never left. We just moved to this area---several years ago---were looking for a Church home. This one was the second one we visited------

  • Phyllis Wheeler10/3/2011

    Good tips!

  • Michele Starkey10/3/2011

    We found a place at Grace.
    Grace Community - we arrived 11 years ago - began to serve (Saved to Serve!) and stayed put :) cheers!

  • Mike Oberg10/2/2011

    Welcoming guests and making them feel like joining the church is an important part of any thriving spiritual community. When people find a way to share their gifts and serve the community, they will become committed to the community.

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